So me and my wife have been married now for five years. Before we got married we were in agreement on almost everything, from spiritual tomorrow to social values. In the last five years three of her best friends have changed their viewpoints on political and social ideas. They are what I would call Christian liberal feminists. One has already gotten a divorce because of this, after only being married to her husband for one year and the other girl is quickly following suit. All they do is either bash their husbands or bash men in general when they all get together. Now from what I know my wife does not bash me when she is with them, but she is starting to take on a lot of their mindsets which are not debacle in anyway and very unhealthy for marriage. She is starting to refuse to do housework around the house and she hasn't cooked a meal for me in the last three months, sex is almost 0 and if it does happen it is once a month. She also quit her teaching job say it had become too stressful even though she went to college for five years to get this job and has only had it for two years. She was doing great at it, bringing in the same salary as me and had an excellent reading on her job performance. She now nannies full-time and dog sits at night. When we do connect all she wants to do is talk about how bad women have it today and black lives matter. She never cooks anymore, She never was around a clean, she works 12 hours a day by choice, we never have sex even though I initiate it, and all she ever wants to talk about is how bad the "minority's" of this country have it, which to be honest with you can become the most exhausting and tiring conversations one can half with their spouse. She has migraine headaches and has said that because of the medication she has to take, we're never going to be able to have kids because the side effects could cause complications in her body during pregnancy. I think she is doing this nanny job so she can have a "children" without ever really having them. Her brother-in-law just had an affair which is only further her disdain for men in general. I do not feel like I know this woman anymore, and I feel like she is purposely avoiding her duties as a wife and trying to get her personal needs met through other ways than in this family. I also feel like her friends have really poison her mind towards marriage, Christianity and men in general. This leaves me in a really precarious situation, since I am a very conservative Christian man and a husband who is not getting any of his needs met in this marriage. We are in marriage counseling now, but the couple that are counseling us seem to not even want to touch on the topic of what this feminist ideology is doing to my wife. The male counselor is very passive and submissive where is the wife is very dominant and bossy, so this topic is not even being touched upon for the fear of looking like it's misogynist or whatever. I am at a loss and I have discussed these issues with my wife but she denies all the reasons why I think she's doing these things, and has come up with some very intelligent answers for each one that leaves the argument at her clothes because they are not things I can refute...(health issues/anxiety disorder/identity confusion...etc etc.) where do I go from here? My dream was always to marry a conservative and traditional Christian wife, and I had married one, but now she has changed her values and now I have a liberal and progressive feminist wife!!!