- Oct 13, 2020
- 41
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- Country
- United States
- Faith
- Lutheran
- Marital Status
- Married
My wife really doesn’t like my family for no real reason. My dad was military and so are my wife and I and my dad likes to talk to her about it which she hates and will complain about my poor dad for hours when we get home. I feel so bad for my folks. Her family lives across the country and I love them and if they were as close to us as my parents were I’d visit them all the time with her as they are very close too. I know that a Husband and wife are supposed to cling to one another and separate from our parents but my parents live like 30 minutes away from us. They absolutely love my wife and she really doesn’t like them and I truly feel so bad for my parents. They have no family (their parents are dead and siblings estranged) and I’m their only child and having my wife was such an excitement to them. I know my ultimate allegiance is to my wife but I feel like I’m breaking my parents heart too. I want to talk to my wife about it but she’s not that easy to talk to about these things as she gets worked up really easy. What should I do about this? I sometimes have to make some event up to tell my parents that we can’t get together when the real reason is my wife just doesn’t want to. What should I do about this?