- Jul 13, 2018
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No one is accusing him of any motives. Perhaps he was pure as the driven snow when he entered this relationship. We don't know. Not judging anything except his assertion that adultery is fine because he takes care of his wife too.Reading the OP's posts, I'm appalled that someone could accuse him of only caring about what "feels good now." Clearly, his attitude is pretty much the opposite of that.
But that's the problem with your religious take on this: he could have left his wife in a nursing home, let somebody else take care of her, not bother taking her to church every week etc. And you Christians would be so understanding! Poor fellow, right! It must be hard for him, let's give him some slack. At least he's not cheating on her...
Again, it's the exact same blind spot that Jesus confronted in the Pharisees. So focused on the letters of the law that both compassion and reason goes out the window, missing the entire point. The fact is @sprucebruce is honoring his wedding vows in a much more sincere way than most men would do in his situation (and probably most men in a normal marriage). He's clearly a man of character and high moral standards. It's a mistake to think that good moral behaviour is the same thing as following commandments.
I am addressing the actions only. Period.
You then resort to the relative privation fallacy, arguing that adultery is "not as bad as throwing her in a home", in an attempt to negate the significance of adultery. Not logical.
Jesus had plenty to say about marriage so it must have been pretty important to Him.
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