Hi all, I am having more and more problems with my 12 year old son. He is acting up much more than he has ever before and all this stems from my husband and I not allowing him to spend time with his cousin.
Here is the background, a little over a month ago my son bought a Nintendo DS and it turned out to be a box stuffed with playing cards instead of a system. My husband and I were unable to get the store to make it right so we explained to him that some times bad things happen to good people and we must remain faithful that God knows best. His 14 year old cousin and her father, my son's uncle and my brother in law, took my son to Walmart and did a "rock in a box" scam to get him a new system. My husband and I then confronted the cousin and uncle about what they did with my son and they for the most part told me to get bent and were extremely rude to me.
With that we decided that or son would not be spending any more time with his cousin. However, this occurred right before the big flounder fishing trip that the uncle and my husband's sister had planned, so naturally we declined to let our son go.
From here the problems began. My son was really looking forward to this trip all summer. It was suppose to be his reward for going to Kumon and VBS all summer. My son was completely crushed when we told him he wasn't going on the trip with his aunt, uncle and cousin Beth. We tried to explain to him that although this wasn't his wrong doing, sometimes life isn't fair. It didn't help that his cousin purposefully rubbed it in on social media how much fun the trip was with all the pictures she posted.
My husband and I are not as well off as the aunt and uncle so us taking him on a trip like that ourselves was out of the question. I am at a loss as to what to do, since the beginning of the school year he's been in trouble numerous times. He acts up in Sunday school now and when anyone admonishes him he just says that sometimes life isn't fair. What can I do?