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First I posted this in the widow forum, but I wondered if it would "do better" here.
My mom has been a widow for nearly five years after a 30 year marriage. Right now she is talking about getting a man ( but I cannot tell how serious she is being. What should I do? ( I am disabled so still live with her I have not said ( partly because I cannot tell if she is being serious or not, but just how I feel about a possible step-father. ( if it does happen I do not know. I do not know how I feel about a new "dad" who you know he knows and I know will just never be dad. What should I do if it does turn out she wishes to remarry? How do I warm up to someone new ( again may not be an issue).
I have an aunt whose mother got remarried when she was an adult. I am thinking of asking her ( even though she had her own children and did not live with her mother at the time ( nor had she in quite a while, but I do not want mom to know if I speak with her concerning this topic which means I do not know when I could do it ( as it is personal and therefore asking at work would be bordering on unacceptable.
Any ideas on this first part? I thought I would not have a problem with it, but now that I cannot even decide how serious she is I do not really know how I feel.
My mom has been a widow for nearly five years after a 30 year marriage. Right now she is talking about getting a man ( but I cannot tell how serious she is being. What should I do? ( I am disabled so still live with her I have not said ( partly because I cannot tell if she is being serious or not, but just how I feel about a possible step-father. ( if it does happen I do not know. I do not know how I feel about a new "dad" who you know he knows and I know will just never be dad. What should I do if it does turn out she wishes to remarry? How do I warm up to someone new ( again may not be an issue).
I have an aunt whose mother got remarried when she was an adult. I am thinking of asking her ( even though she had her own children and did not live with her mother at the time ( nor had she in quite a while, but I do not want mom to know if I speak with her concerning this topic which means I do not know when I could do it ( as it is personal and therefore asking at work would be bordering on unacceptable.
Any ideas on this first part? I thought I would not have a problem with it, but now that I cannot even decide how serious she is I do not really know how I feel.
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