And Mom and Daughter each need their own 'special day '
Why ? - well from personal experience I really don't think you remember much about the day because you are just soooooooooooo happy about it all. Photos afterwards are a help . This way Bug can tell Mom about the things that Mom forgot and later [ or earlier ] Mom can take piccies and remind Bug about things.
That way you get double the memories and it lets each one have a very special day.
So far what she wants to buy for her big sister from the book store at the Parish (I've thankfully not shown her hte online shopping sites) A diptych, a small pocket prayer book, and icon bracelet, an icon of St Michael (her maiden surname), a senser, a prayer rope, and incense, charcoal...and she asked if it was okay to mail holy water...
She's nearly as tall as I am already okay okay, I admit it...it's not saying much...I'm only 5'3", but she's only 10!!!! (well for a few more weeks anyway)