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My driving mistakes scare me so much, and my OCD doesn't help!

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So lately all of my compulsive thinking and anxiety and checking has been about my driving. Today I think I might have cut in front of a cyclist by accident!

I even came back shortly after, but the cyclist had moved on somewhere.

They were going down a hill quite fast, near the speed limit and I tried to overtake. I've been anxious about overtaking lately, and was trying to make sure I saw them in my rear view mirror before moving back in the lane. I moved past them slightly and tried to see them in my mirror, I can't remember how well I saw them in my side mirror, but I remember not seeing them in center mirror and thinking that maybe I was too far right to see them properly and moved a little back into the lane. Suddenly I saw them in the center mirror so I moved back in the lane and continued. I think they were cycling normally behind me.

But in hindsight I suspect I might have accidentally moved too quickly and they braked to let me in. I didn't hear anything, though I had music on and I was exhausted. I was focusing on my center rather than my side mirror.

There is a small black smudge and scratch on my car, but it's too low for a handle bar and I think that was when I swung my bag against my car by accident. I really hope I didn't force them to brake or clip them.

I'm really anxious about this but I have no way of knowing. I live in a small town, but I have no idea who the cyclist was and feel horrible for not thinking it through properly before moving back into the lane. I can only pray that I gave a wider berth than I fear I did.
 

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So lately all of my compulsive thinking and anxiety and checking has been about my driving. Today I think I might have cut in front of a cyclist by accident!

I even came back shortly after, but the cyclist had moved on somewhere.

They were going down a hill quite fast, near the speed limit and I tried to overtake. I've been anxious about overtaking lately, and was trying to make sure I saw them in my rear view mirror before moving back in the lane. I moved past them slightly and tried to see them in my mirror, I can't remember how well I saw them in my side mirror, but I remember not seeing them in center mirror and thinking that maybe I was too far right to see them properly and moved a little back into the lane. Suddenly I saw them in the center mirror so I moved back in the lane and continued. I think they were cycling normally behind me.

But in hindsight I suspect I might have accidentally moved too quickly and they braked to let me in. I didn't hear anything, though I had music on and I was exhausted. I was focusing on my center rather than my side mirror.

There is a small black smudge and scratch on my car, but it's too low for a handle bar and I think that was when I swung my bag against my car by accident. I really hope I didn't force them to brake or clip them.

I'm really anxious about this but I have no way of knowing. I live in a small town, but I have no idea who the cyclist was and feel horrible for not thinking it through properly before moving back into the lane. I can only pray that I gave a wider berth than I fear I did.
Welcome to CF.
Call the police and see if a hit and run was reported. It sounds like you fear the worst. It will be alright. This is the right thing to do as well as give you peace of mind.
Blessings.
 
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Welcome to CF.
Call the police and see if a hit and run was reported. It sounds like you fear the worst. It will be alright. This is the right thing to do as well as give you peace of mind.
Blessings.
The tricky thing is that I'm in Japan and my Japanese is limited. I think I will keep an ear out just in case, but since I think they were cycling as normal and didn't seem to hit them (they weren't swerving noticeably or anything when I saw them in the center mirror) there wouldn't be a point to call the police. Though if anyone does come looking I will of course tell the truth. The car who came after me would also have seen what happened and they didn't signal me at all, so I think I'm ok. I hope so.
 
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