NothingIsImpossible
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Well problem is he won't be forgiven by God by having sex and praying after. Why? Because hes planned what he wants to do and is just like "Eh, I can pray about after and be fine!". But he doesn't realize hes abusing Gods grace. If you plan to sin and then plan to apologize, then God will know its not from your heart. He maybe can full others with that excuse hes using but its still an excuse and Gods not stupid.He feels like he'd rather fornicate and apologize to God than cheat.
Especially if he has sex, asks for forgiveness but plans on doing it again. I know because I was the same way with inappropriate content. I planned to look at inappropriate content, then pray after. And while I was getting ready to pray I was also planning what inappropriate content to look at the next day. So God wasn't taking me seriously. I was a sinner enjoying sin and pretending I could get away with what I thought was a loophole in prayer.
Well the problem with marrying right away is sure, you fulfill your sexual desire right away. But if the marriage doesnt go as plan you get divorced then just replaced the original sin (sex before marriage) with divorce. The fact hes making excuses about sex and cheating doesn't look good at all. If hes this full of excuses before marriage, imagine what he will be like after marriage. Or what if you have sex, get pregnant and he decides to ditch you because he just wanted the sex, not the baby.My solution is to just get married after a few months lol.
I mean at least he was honest enough to tell me no sex will make him tempted to cheat and that he can't wait until after marriage.
Well if a guy wants sex that bad or he "might cheat", then dump him. If hes willing to cheat now, he will be willing to cheat when married too. And to be honest the fact he says hes tempted to cheat if yon don't have sex shows hes being manipulative to make you feel bad so he can have sex with you right away. I'm not saying all men are liars.... but... well to many are. They think with their genitals, not their brains.No guy is willing to marry without sex, none I've met anyway.
I again say this as someone who was the same. And most couples I met have the same issue with their bf/fiancee before marriage. Hes guilts them into sex and half the time ditches them before marriage. Find another guy. Its not easy, but its better then messing up your life over. Next thing you know he will be telling you (once married) "Honey I really want to buy this $15,000 sound system. If I don't get it I'll become depressed and may cheat to feel better!" or "Our sex life is boring now, we need to make it better or I'll look somewhere else for sex!". Trust me this is normal manipulation.
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