Hi all! I’ve been married to a screen-addicted spouse for over four years now. He’s been addicted the whole time, and unwilling to own up to having any sort of problem the whole four years. Because of this, and coupled with pregnancy hormones, our first year of marriage was a disaster. But I eventually chalked it up to something God would take care of in His perfect timing. Eventually, through the Spirit, my husband would take the first step toward recovery by finally at least ADMITTING he had a problem! But it’s been over four years now, like I said, and... nothing. I think I’d cope a lot better if I didn’t have two young children this whole time who need a present father and holy example of a godly man. I still trust God and know He is sovereign and will take care of us all despite my husband may NEVER get his priorities in order. He doesn’t seem to prioritize his faith at all from where I’m sitting. But gets frustrated if I make any suggestions that he get close to God again, or take a walk (he also struggles with obesity and all kinds of insecurity that come with it), or play with the kids for more than 45 minutes, or find a counselor (ha!), or try to make new friends who’d be a better influence. To give God His more-than-due glory here, our marriage has improved significantly after we recently reunited after a short separation due to him being verbally/psychologically abusive... however, now that he’s back to playing his most addictive game, I feel scared we will revert to his old ways. I don’t get help around the house and so I’m constantly exhausted and feel I don’t have the time for our kids that they really deserve. I trust the Lord but I’m also horribly angry a lot, scared and frustrated, even though I love my husband and want what’s best for HIM, just as much as I want what’s best for him for myself and kids. So... does anyone have words of encouragement or tips or testimonials for my situation? I’d also be really interested in any books that may speak into this circumstance as well.
Thanks so much for reading. God bless.
Thanks so much for reading. God bless.