Do you and your spouse have the same level of motivation when it comes to life goals (whether major or minor)? Do you find your spouse is much more motivated than the other when it comes to these things? What do you do if you have the spouse who lacks motivation or planning or the 'get-it-done' mentality? Do you try to motivate your spouse or do you go ahead and get those things done and plan for the future and make decisions if your spouse isnt that motivated or procrastinates?
Ideally both spouses should have the same or similar goals in life and work on a plan (such as financial planning/budgeting, keeping up with the major household responsibilities, giving back to the community, etc), but I'm sure this isnt always the case. I guess I want to see just how common it is for the 'motivation levels' to be vastly different. How do you deal with it if your spouse isnt a go-getter when it comes to these things?
Ideally both spouses should have the same or similar goals in life and work on a plan (such as financial planning/budgeting, keeping up with the major household responsibilities, giving back to the community, etc), but I'm sure this isnt always the case. I guess I want to see just how common it is for the 'motivation levels' to be vastly different. How do you deal with it if your spouse isnt a go-getter when it comes to these things?