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Mob Tactics

Discussion in 'Trauma, PTSD & Dissociation' started by waves, May 25, 2019.

  1. waves

    waves not so new

    A mob is:

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    I have had to deal with mobs of people hating me. This is because many have been lied to by my abusers into believing that I am a bad person, some however know that I am not bad and continue to make my life extremely difficult because they are in league with my abusers on some level .

    Mobs are used by my abusers to visit my home, hang around me, following me wherever I go, inciting persons to attack me etc, trying to turn everyone I have ever known against me, because they are trying to prevent me from having any support system at all. They want me alone, isolated, which is apart of the abuse process that has been taking place throughout my life, they don't want anyone to believe me, listen to me, support me etc .

    Visit My Home

    This is where persons befriend me, come by to "visit me" but their real intention is to find everything they can use against me. My alters are vulnerable and try to be as accommodating as possible to everyone that comes into my home.

    The primary way they to use what they come against me is through what I write. I write a lot about different things, this is because I learned that if you want to be a great writer you have to write every single day, so I strive to do this as much as I can.

    People come over my home specifically searching for things that I have written to prove that I am a bad person, that I have bad intentions. They take things that I have written and twist them and outright lie saying I have written things which I have not written and this is prove of me being guilty of whatever crime, misdeed they think I have committed.

    What is also telling, is that most if not all persons come in my home thinking they have a right to be in it, and they have a right to search my home for anything they can to use against me. Some people are outright hostile coming into my home just to berate me and criticize me. In their own home though, they would be angry and offended if persons did to them what they are doing to me and would demand that they leave.

    There was an incident where more than one persons came in my home, saying things to upset me, and when I started quarreling he began using his cell phone to record me. They want to 'prove' apparently that I am just a quarrelsome angry person, when the reason why I am angry is completely understandable. But for persons seeing that video they would think that I am a bad, quarrelsome, hostile person.

    I want to make it clear that 99.99 percent of people who come into my home to 'visit me' has ulterior motives, they hate me, with some pretending they like me in order to find whatever they can use to portray me as a bad person.

    I also want to make it clear that all of my former classmates who are in my life has bad intentions. One of the things that God made me understand is that my former best friend who lived in the U.S was sent by my abusers to be around me, this is why she left her 'life' in America to come and be around me all the time. Most of my alters are vulnerable because they want to believe that she and others around me are good and have good intentions but in reality this is not so.

    I do not want any of my neighbors, 'friends', 'former classmates,', 'former coworkers', etc around me and my family because they are bad and have ulterior motives, no matter how nice and helpful they act.

    There are also persons within my family as well (my adopted family, etc) who hate me as well and make this absolutely clear.
    Last edited: May 25, 2019
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  2. ChicanaRose

    ChicanaRose Well-Known Member

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    Then maybe you can find your own circle separate from/ untouched by the abuser and start fresh, even if that means you have to commute a bit farther to a church community.