My mother in law is a very worldly person. She frets and meddles and calls it love. Think Marie Barone from Everybody Loves Raymond.
One of my daughters (23 years old) is having a rough time. She just graduated from college and does not know what she is going to do next. She was dumped by a boy who was a rebound relationship and has been devastated by it. He was abusive toward her.
She does not know God. She is currently dating and is beginning with drugs.
Now here's the thing: My mother in law is texting my husband and talking about this and they have agreed not to talk to me about the fact that they are conversing. My mother in law has no relationship with my children, unless they are pleasing her and showing off for her. Any problems they reveal get spread to the rest of the family as gossip. She is now spreading that my daughter looks horrible, etc.n (which she does).
Any suggestions what I should do about the MIL? I feel betrayed by her and my husband. This is nothing new. It's how they both operate. Sneaky and deceptiveThank you.
One of my daughters (23 years old) is having a rough time. She just graduated from college and does not know what she is going to do next. She was dumped by a boy who was a rebound relationship and has been devastated by it. He was abusive toward her.
She does not know God. She is currently dating and is beginning with drugs.
Now here's the thing: My mother in law is texting my husband and talking about this and they have agreed not to talk to me about the fact that they are conversing. My mother in law has no relationship with my children, unless they are pleasing her and showing off for her. Any problems they reveal get spread to the rest of the family as gossip. She is now spreading that my daughter looks horrible, etc.n (which she does).
Any suggestions what I should do about the MIL? I feel betrayed by her and my husband. This is nothing new. It's how they both operate. Sneaky and deceptiveThank you.