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I Spit On Perfection
- May 16, 2006
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So gender is a social construct but sex is a physical trait. Sex is male/female but gender is man/woman? I'm still a bit confused about how a female can be a man or a woman can be a male. I always thought a male was a man and a female was a woman but that is not the case?
It's because of the qualifier I brought up: cis man is that which is male and identifies as such, there's no clash in societal expectations that conflate sex and gender, but trans man would be someone that is female, but identifies as a man and seeks to live as such, like my friend, who has been growing a pretty good beard for a female (hormones vary, obviously, some cis men can't grow beards) and is generally accepted as such, though he is still not out to everyone, like my parents, who I feel like would be respectful though also have some slips like I still do, since I knew this person for 15+ years practically as a woman
There is a vernacular that conflates male/female and man/woman respectively and you'll see people try to make the argument based on a dictionary definition that uses man and woman to describe adult members of the male sex, but the state of age or sex are not in question with regards to trans men or women, it's that they are not identifying in regards to their sex when speaking about being a man or a woman, because that is in general understanding these days, meant to be broader in application, not just about what's between your legs, which is far better suited to be described by male/female or intersex, all terms about physical traits.
This image might be a good start
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