Hypothetically speaking, what if God took a heart of stone from a man, and gave him a heart of flesh, and with that new heart, the man freely loved God? Would that be okay?
Well, as my friend would say, "It depends." If the stony heart was due to a true free will decison by an ingenuously innocent person, then no. If it refers to a elect who had once put their faith in YHWH for salvation then fell into deep sin, (the prodigal son) then, yes because it goes against the sinful will, not his free will decision to be accept the Son as his saviour.
In my Christian Opinion
Fellowship = communion = marriage
Please consider:
GOD wanted to create a Church, a congregation of people in full loving, holy communion with HIM in heaven BECAUSE THEY WANTED TO BE THERE WITH HIM IN THAT REALITY! They must have truly wanted love, holiness and heaven as HE defines it.
How did HE find all the people in HIS creation who would like to live that way, after HE taught them all about it and all about the alternatives? HE asked them to make a true free will decision to accept HIM as their GOD and to accept HIS purpose for their creation. HE created all people in HIS image ingenuously innocent with the ability to make free will decisions and choices. Period.
Faith, not sight / proof
How did HE ensure they really wanted that and were not just pushed into it by HIS being all GODlike and all? Looking the same as anyone else, HE offered no proof at all that HE was divine and that HE could take us to heaven or help us learn to be pure, holy and loving but asked us to accept this on
faith, ie the
hope that it was all true because we liked what we heard so well and wanted it so much, we didn't need proof to accept it.
Faith = hope, of the unseen, the unproven, hope in our eternal life in heaven with GOD in full loving, holy communion, ie fulfilling HIS reason for our creation.
By not proving HIMself overwhelmingly but hiding HIS glory, GOD allows us each to choose where to put our faith, by which we actually define our own reality, the world view we live in which also defines both God and our relationship with Him from our point of view.
"This is what I believe" means
"This is the way I hope the reality of the universe is." 2 Corinthians 5:7 We live by faith, not by sight (ie proof).
BUT
if someone chose to accept HIM as their GOD and to accept HIS purpose for their creation, HE promised them ELECTION to heaven, backed by the gospel promise that if they should ever choose to become evil in HIS sight, HE would do whatever was necessary to bring them to redemption, back to HIM and back to their original true free will decision.
For those
elect who
did chose to become evil in HIS sight, HE gave PREDESTINED human lives, perfectly designed to fulfill their salvation and to bring them to holiness.
Since this all happened before earth's creation, and since earth is where these people work out the redemptive purposes of their predestined lives, this is not the place where we try to find GOD but the place where we work out our already made decisions about HIM.
Of course this allowed some to reject HIM and so put themselves outside of HIS mercy, grace and love for eternity because their free will to repent and accept HIM was destroyed by three things:
1. their enslavement to sin by choosing evil
2. When their choice to reject GOD as a false GOD and a liar most evil was proven wrong (by HIS creation of the physical universe) it meant their "free " will was now coerced by the knowledge of HIS deity so they could never choose to accept HIM as GOD by free will, which was a necessity for salvation and
3. they could now never again choose HIM by faith because what is proven is no longer faith:
Hebrews 11:1 Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. Faith is hope.
Romans 8:24 For in this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who hopes for what he already has? This faith / hope saves if it is not based upon proof (ie what is seen).
Thus they are condemned by their refusal to accept YHWH as their GOD, putting themselves outside of all HIS promises and self creating themselves as demons and devils eternally unable to fulfill HIS purpose in their creation, fit only to be banished from this reality.
Peace, Ted