Hello.
My finacee is a Buddhist and is very open minded about my Christian faith. I really love this woman a lot. I can't help who I fall in love with.
Anyways, we were talking about how to raise the children (since it's a big deal). I told her I wanted to raise them Christian, and she didn't have a problem with that. However, she told me that she wanted them to be old enough to make their own minds up about things, and that she wanted to teach them about her belief in Buddhism.
Is there anyway to find the happy median? She's already told me that she doesn't mind them being raised Christian, but that she doesn't want me to force them into anything. For them to hear both sides of this and then decide for themselves when they are old enough to do so.
I never want to force my children to do anything, since I know saving grace is up to God. I was forced into Christianity and it made me a pretty bitter teenager. I came back, of course, but I don't want my children to go down the same road.
Any advice or thoughts?
Thanks and God bless.
My finacee is a Buddhist and is very open minded about my Christian faith. I really love this woman a lot. I can't help who I fall in love with.
Anyways, we were talking about how to raise the children (since it's a big deal). I told her I wanted to raise them Christian, and she didn't have a problem with that. However, she told me that she wanted them to be old enough to make their own minds up about things, and that she wanted to teach them about her belief in Buddhism.
Is there anyway to find the happy median? She's already told me that she doesn't mind them being raised Christian, but that she doesn't want me to force them into anything. For them to hear both sides of this and then decide for themselves when they are old enough to do so.
I never want to force my children to do anything, since I know saving grace is up to God. I was forced into Christianity and it made me a pretty bitter teenager. I came back, of course, but I don't want my children to go down the same road.
Any advice or thoughts?
Thanks and God bless.