Pray for her and do not mention again that you like her. Give her time away from you and if possible tell her to fix what issues she may have with her spouse. For her marriage to end would be a terrible thing and you would hate to be part of the destructionOk, thanks. So......what should I do now? It's already happened.
Long story short: a married Christian woman has had a crush on me for a long time. Although I like her too, I have told her many times that we can't be together.
She asked me again, today, if I still liked her. I replied, "Yes, but we can't be together."
But, although that was the truthful answer - indeed, I think the most truthful answer I could have given - part of me wonders if I sinned by saying so. Should I have lied instead and said, "No I don't like you?" Should I have replied, "I'm not answering that?"
I am somewhat tormented inside now.
The Church will have a shortage of much more than a pianist if this goes much further.This is what I had considered. But the church has an urgent shortage of pianists and needs me playing.
Long story short: a married Christian woman has had a crush on me for a long time. Although I like her too, I have told her many times that we can't be together.
She asked me again, today, if I still liked her. I replied, "Yes, but we can't be together."
But, although that was the truthful answer - indeed, I think the most truthful answer I could have given - part of me wonders if I sinned by saying so. Should I have lied instead and said, "No I don't like you?" Should I have replied, "I'm not answering that?"
I am somewhat tormented inside now.
sometimes there are more to questions than just their surface meanings. Although her intentions may not be fully articulated, or arguable still innocent, she is essentially asking to engage in the beginning of an affair. if the question was "do you want to have a date with me", "do you want to kiss me" or "do you want to have sex with me" the answer would be no (I hope) so answer to what the questions lead to not to its immediate isolated meaning may be.Long story short: a married Christian woman has had a crush on me for a long time. Although I like her too, I have told her many times that we can't be together.
She asked me again, today, if I still liked her. I replied, "Yes, but we can't be together."
But, although that was the truthful answer - indeed, I think the most truthful answer I could have given - part of me wonders if I sinned by saying so. Should I have lied instead and said, "No I don't like you?" Should I have replied, "I'm not answering that?"
I am somewhat tormented inside now.
This is what I had considered. But the church has an urgent shortage of pianists and needs me playing.
office romance. ugh. tricky situation. it's hard to break unless you quit. ask the Lord to help you.Long story short: a married Christian woman has had a crush on me for a long time. Although I like her too, I have told her many times that we can't be together.
She asked me again, today, if I still liked her. I replied, "Yes, but we can't be together."
But, although that was the truthful answer - indeed, I think the most truthful answer I could have given - part of me wonders if I sinned by saying so. Should I have lied instead and said, "No I don't like you?" Should I have replied, "I'm not answering that?"
I am somewhat tormented inside now.
You shouldn't be alone talking with a married woman. You shouldn't even be friends with a married woman.
Thanks. I guess I should just say no next time. It hurts, though - loving someone and then having to force out the lie, "No I don't like you," through gritted teeth.
But she was pressured by circumstances into marrying someone else, a man she didn't want to marry.
But she was pressured by circumstances into marrying someone else, a man she didn't want to marry. And we've still not stopped liking each other.
You shouldn't even be friends with a married woman.
Long story short: a married Christian woman has had a crush on me for a long time. Although I like her too, I have told her many times that we can't be together.
She asked me again, today, if I still liked her. I replied, "Yes, but we can't be together."
But, although that was the truthful answer - indeed, I think the most truthful answer I could have given - part of me wonders if I sinned by saying so. Should I have lied instead and said, "No I don't like you?" Should I have replied, "I'm not answering that?"
I am somewhat tormented inside now.
It is not what you say to her that matters as much as how you truly feel about her. As we know, God knows our heart. You are not the first to lust over a married woman. And yes, I use the word lust because this is how scripture describes it. If I were you, as a tormented Christian, I would put much distance between the two of you. IMO, she is tempting you as well as satisfying her need for attention. You have also aided in this by exposing your true feelings. This is the normal pattern for a potential adulteress relationship, so cut off all communication asap. I speak from experience.Long story short: a married Christian woman has had a crush on me for a long time. Although I like her too, I have told her many times that we can't be together.
She asked me again, today, if I still liked her. I replied, "Yes, but we can't be together."
But, although that was the truthful answer - indeed, I think the most truthful answer I could have given - part of me wonders if I sinned by saying so. Should I have lied instead and said, "No I don't like you?" Should I have replied, "I'm not answering that?"
I am somewhat tormented inside now.