Don't just throw Proverbs 31 at me, assume that is a given. Give me the honest truth as it pertains to modern women in the US. What are warning signs that I should not brush under the carpet? What are signs she is a good or bad pick for a wife.
Don't just throw Proverbs 31 at me, assume that is a given. Give me the honest truth as it pertains to modern women in the US. What are warning signs that I should not brush under the carpet? What are signs she is a good or bad pick for a wife.
I've been married 24 years. Marry your best friend.
Secondly, if a sexual relationship is at all important to you, make sure that you and she are on the same page with this. Talk about it. A lot. And if you find any sign that she's not committed to a sexual relationship, run. If you are committed to having a Biblical marriage, this is likely your only chance at a sexual relationship--make sure it's not a life long disappointment.
Alot depends on what you personally want in a wife. So only you can answer. What is your rationale for wanting to be married? If its companionship, then marry a woman once she has become your best friend. If its children, then marry a woman who you think will become a wonderful mother. If you are the kind of man who needs physical beauty to be romantically attracted, then marry a woman you find beautiful.What are signs she is a good or bad pick for a wife.
Don't just throw Proverbs 31 at me, assume that is a given. Give me the honest truth as it pertains to modern women in the US. What are warning signs that I should not brush under the carpet? What are signs she is a good or bad pick for a wife.
Don't just throw Proverbs 31 at me, assume that is a given. Give me the honest truth as it pertains to modern women in the US. What are warning signs that I should not brush under the carpet? What are signs she is a good or bad pick for a wife.
Originally Posted by Gabe7
Don't just throw Proverbs 31 at me, assume that is a given. Give me the honest truth as it pertains to modern women in the US. What are warning signs that I should not brush under the carpet? What are signs she is a good or bad pick for a wife.
Areas to TEST TEST TEST, EXAMINE EXAMINE EXAMINE
Family relations in her family especially during childhood and teen years.
Did her family nourish her in emotions, spirit, and mind?
Is she really dedicated to God more than herself or others?
The other posts covered some of the other things like sex, personality, and abilities.
I am sure you already know to diligently seek Gods guidance in this very important decision but I just want to say one more reminder because God can make up for a ton of testing and examinations or use those testings and examinations to communicate with you.
Dont cop out and not examine and test because God may use those actions to make clear to you His guidance. Sometimes this kind of decision is a God-You team work effort.
PS I have been married for 43 years