God is the only one other than me and my co-worker who know what I'm feeling. I just have to get this out there. I'm in inner-turmoil, and feel at times like I'm at the end of my rope. Today I am very down and depressed because I have not yet received a text message from my female co-worker. If I receive a text today, it will be like a shot in the arm, and I will be on top of the world again.
I am married (for 6 years) and we have 2 young children (1 and 2 year olds). I love my wife very much.
10 months ago, a new girl started working for my company, and began working closely with my and another older woman. I felt an instant connection to her (and she later told me that she also noticed a connection the moment we met). It wasn't long before the text messaging started back and forth. I opened up, and got very personal with this girl, telling her even things that were not right with my marriage.
The texting turned into going out for drinks for a working happy hour (to work on work projects), which turned into going out for drinks to hang out and be together. We never touched each other physically. - However, I would have if given the chance. She kept the boundaries.
This girl then pressed me to leave my marriage and get serious with her. It was then that I got scared, and told her that I had to stop the texting and happy hours.
We were polite, yet didn't text or hang out outside of work after this - Until recently. We went out on another happy hour WORK date, but yet felt a connection again. We have now stepped up the texting again, and my feelings for her have increased again, and I am finding myself unable to stop thinking about her. And now starting this week, I will be working alone with her quite a bit. It is so hard, as I find myself wanting her, but cannot have her.
I hate my life right now. I hate these feelings of attraction to her. I love my wife, and wish I could give my whole self to her, and have a strong marriage. I am lost, and am finding solace only through alcohol, which helps to numb the emotions.
Please, if anyone has gone through this, please write me. And please pray for me.
Thank you.
I am married (for 6 years) and we have 2 young children (1 and 2 year olds). I love my wife very much.
10 months ago, a new girl started working for my company, and began working closely with my and another older woman. I felt an instant connection to her (and she later told me that she also noticed a connection the moment we met). It wasn't long before the text messaging started back and forth. I opened up, and got very personal with this girl, telling her even things that were not right with my marriage.
The texting turned into going out for drinks for a working happy hour (to work on work projects), which turned into going out for drinks to hang out and be together. We never touched each other physically. - However, I would have if given the chance. She kept the boundaries.
This girl then pressed me to leave my marriage and get serious with her. It was then that I got scared, and told her that I had to stop the texting and happy hours.
We were polite, yet didn't text or hang out outside of work after this - Until recently. We went out on another happy hour WORK date, but yet felt a connection again. We have now stepped up the texting again, and my feelings for her have increased again, and I am finding myself unable to stop thinking about her. And now starting this week, I will be working alone with her quite a bit. It is so hard, as I find myself wanting her, but cannot have her.
I hate my life right now. I hate these feelings of attraction to her. I love my wife, and wish I could give my whole self to her, and have a strong marriage. I am lost, and am finding solace only through alcohol, which helps to numb the emotions.
Please, if anyone has gone through this, please write me. And please pray for me.
Thank you.