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First He needs to pull the miracle of sending me someone who will like me despite my poor social skills!
That isn’t hard for Him! Look at my post in the what’s on your mind thread.
They're quite few, I know! I met some already. They tend to be simple, very approachable, down-to-Earth women but I let them slip through my fingers.
Why does it happen? I was wondering the same thing recently and questioning if I missed a good opportunity. But after my classmate’s revelation I realized He can bring me to the right person no matter what and I needn’t worry.
Memory problems is probably not just my mind problem but can also be very stupid.
But that probably isn’t the way she’ll see you. We worry about our flaws and they’re rarely the things that bother others because their nuances are different.
You’re smart and your challenges may make you more personable and humble than most with similar intelligence. And maybe that’s important to her and she won’t feel bad about the things she doesn’t know.
When I shared the realities of being ill in the past and the limitations it placed on me He revealed its connection to the men I’ve dated. They’re concerned about my welfare and want me to remain healthy. Removing the burden of earning ensures I won’t push myself too much and relapse.
That was an important revelation that will help me to assure my companion and be less put off by someone who desires me to do less than I am. Things aren’t always as bad as we assume.
Even with this subject, poverty and lack can leave mental impressions. I had a neighbor who purchased excessive amounts of food. Her cupboards were full and extras were stored in boxes. When she shared her childhood experiences I understood the feeling of scarcity remained.
So maybe the best thing is to ask why the person feels money is important. They may have suffered hardships or watched their parents endure them and the fear of the same makes them scared. People don’t readily admit this and some don’t realize its influencing their choices.
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