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I saw this yesterday. Very interesting stat. 80% of Veterinary School students are women.
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What if someone enjoys working fast food, and works their way up to manager later on - thus earning a decent salary. Or what if they work fast food, and have a hobby that supplements additional income. Would they be someone to consider marrying?
I'll admit, it would be a rare occurrence. This is just a hypothetical situation brought up to address the elephant in the room.There is exception in every thing
Most working fast food do not tho?
I mean career. No fear of future income. If you enjoy working fast food that is fine but it cannot easily suport family life which should be considered in christian marriage?
I'll admit, it would be a rare occurrence. This is just a hypothetical situation brought up to address the elephant in the room.
Sadly, I think marriage is in decline for various reasons, with pride being the main contributing factor in today's culture. Although at the same time, some just don't desire to be married. Overall though, I think society sets their expectations so high, and seeks something unrealistic rather than practical; a modern phenomena. Intimacy (and basically everything else that is reserved for marriage) is also readily available nowadays outside of it, so I'm sure many don't see the point. It's like everything is completely backwards. However, even something practical / realistic can be exciting, especially if God is in the midst of it.
I'll admit, it would be a rare occurrence. This is just a hypothetical situation brought up to address the elephant in the room.
Sadly, I think marriage is in decline for various reasons, with pride being the main contributing factor in today's culture. Although at the same time, some just don't desire to be married. Overall though, I think society sets their expectations so high, and seeks something unrealistic rather than practical; a modern phenomena. Intimacy (and basically everything else that is reserved for marriage) is also readily available nowadays outside of it, so I'm sure many don't see the point. It's like everything is completely backwards. However, even something practical / realistic can be exciting, especially if God is in the midst of it.
There's definitely nothing wrong with wanting stability, or especially wanting a partner who is mature. I very much agree, a couple should get married for the right reasons, planning for a long-term commitment. Although, life is not always stable. If a man loses his job, social status, etc., or if a couple no longer get to enjoy the luxuries they once had, he could also end up losing his wife in the process. Even though he himself didn't change. This scenario is what I see increasing in society today, and is what I mean with the unrealistic vs. practical argument. I think it's important to establish what practicality in marriage really is, and what expectations would be deemed unrealistic.I am not sure it is such a negative tho.
I think it better to not get married then get married for a wrong Idea.
Like get married because first you had a kid. Or get married because you are lonely. Or get married because your family or church says. So on.
Kids tying themselves down before getting their life stable leads to unhappy marriage when people change or run out of money or realize they only married for kids.
Basically getting married before getting mature.
Furthermore, many where I live are marrying foreign women because they actually know how to be wives and mothers. I'm no stranger to interracial relationships/marriage but I find this to be very interesting that over in the Old World they have a stronger sense of a family unit than many over in North America. It's like we traded meaningful relationships for wealth and status.
I guess where I grew up it is not so strange to focus on career first. That is the point of school any way. I was a little girl like 8 when I was being told to think about what my career will be.
So worrying if people you date can hold a job is not such a thing because they have career before you know them. Man and woman.
Beyond that yes bad thing can happen you never know and that is why is important to have some thing to fall back on.
I think the bigger problem is marrying some one you do not actualy know.
More than 7 million men between the ages of 25 and 54 — prime working age — have dropped out of the labor force. —The Week
"One in six prime-age guys has no job; it's kind of worse than it was in the depression in 1940," says Nicholas Eberstadt, an economic and demographic researcher at American Enterprise Institute who wrote the book Men Without Work: America's Invisible Crisis. He says these men aren't even counted among the jobless, because they aren't seeking work. —NPR
I’ve read several articles on this issue. Here’s a few:
Why Are 7 Million Men Missing from the Workforce? —The Art of Manliness, 2019
Millennial Men Leaving Perplexing Hole in Hot U.S. Job Market —Bloomberg, 2018
The U.S. Labor Force’s Guy Problem: Lots of Men Don’t Have a Job and aren’t Looking for One —L.A. Times, 2016
The Mystery of America's Missing Male Workers —The Week, 2016
Well that just proves how the economy isn't so great jobwise. Where I live, the average hourly rate is between 13 to 15 per hour. Aka "The working poor". There's an indy film out there demonstrating this called "The Florida Project". A lot of underpaid types.
I don’t understand what’s going on and I’m trying to. Not only the financial side but also the mental and emotional things men are experiencing.
Its bigger than the economy. That’s simply where you’re seeing the fallout. But its happening in other areas too. His diminishment saddens me a great deal.
Oh, and the price of rent is going sky high, so that doesn't help matters.