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To my mind the danger of this kind of approach is that it shames people who genuinely are in need of support. The classic case is someone with mental illness; telling someone with a genuine health issue to "man up" (or "gird your loins," or whatever) is to denigrate the very real situation they're in, and the need for time and appropriate support to learn to manage that.
Yes, but the same kind of misuse of even the best intended and most innocuous phrases can be damaging in the wrong context. Heb 13:17 while a true and good instruction has been used by bad leaders to shame people into subservience and squash constructive dialogue and feedback among congregations.
We see it in another thread on Christian Advice where the advice given to someone asking about dealing with repeated physical violence in marriage includes people commenting on divorce and remarriage scriptures. Worthwhile discussion but dangerous in this case as it is encouraging the abused to stay with their abuser.
To me the issue isn't the phrase itself, but the misuse of the phrase. That should be called out when seen - but the solution isn't to stop using a phrase in proper context. Again, I acknowledge my experience is not universal and shapes much of my viewpoint. I come from a military and athletic heritage, but also one when where emotions of compassion, empathy, etc. have been suppressed. I can see from posts others have dealt with that.
Heb 13:17 Have confidence in your leaders and submit to their authority, because they keep watch over as those who must give an account. Do this so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no benefit to you.
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