Hi I posted a thread a bit earlier on this but situations change and I’m needing new advice. I’ll keep it short.
I’m a 20 year old girl, just moved city for Uni and joined a church myself for the first time. It’s 100% online as we’re in total lockdown right now.
I feel God has put it in my heart to be married and have children in the future (as he does many people) and I think I am ready to begin seeing if I should be meeting and getting to know some men.
There are few singles in the church but there is one guy who’s about 25, doing a phd at a neighbouring university who also goes. We have a weekly zoom call together with about 40/50 other people so hard to get speaking but he will know I know that I know of him from seeing him at that and also seeing him liking stuff of the fb group etc.
so I’m thinking, is it too forward to send him a fb friend request / ig follow in a few weeks time when maybe we’ve chatted a bit more ? It’s very common in Christian circles to do that but I’ve never done it ? I wouldn’t message him as it’s not the ‘done thing’ it would merely be an opportunity for a conversation start at some point.
I am 99% he is single and he seems to have some photos of an ex girlfriend on his Facebook and she looks very like me so I think I might be his type (lol).
sorry if this seems immature or stupid in the middle of a pandemic but I want to see what the best way forward with this is, obviously I’m praying about it
I’m a 20 year old girl, just moved city for Uni and joined a church myself for the first time. It’s 100% online as we’re in total lockdown right now.
I feel God has put it in my heart to be married and have children in the future (as he does many people) and I think I am ready to begin seeing if I should be meeting and getting to know some men.
There are few singles in the church but there is one guy who’s about 25, doing a phd at a neighbouring university who also goes. We have a weekly zoom call together with about 40/50 other people so hard to get speaking but he will know I know that I know of him from seeing him at that and also seeing him liking stuff of the fb group etc.
so I’m thinking, is it too forward to send him a fb friend request / ig follow in a few weeks time when maybe we’ve chatted a bit more ? It’s very common in Christian circles to do that but I’ve never done it ? I wouldn’t message him as it’s not the ‘done thing’ it would merely be an opportunity for a conversation start at some point.
I am 99% he is single and he seems to have some photos of an ex girlfriend on his Facebook and she looks very like me so I think I might be his type (lol).
sorry if this seems immature or stupid in the middle of a pandemic but I want to see what the best way forward with this is, obviously I’m praying about it
