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At church today I almost had a panic attack and I had to step out for the first half of the service. This is the second time this has happened to me.
I'm not sure what I really believe anymore, to be honest. I believe in Jesus, but I'm not sure I can be part of my congregation . My ethics are far more radical, and I'm critical of much of the "Christian tradition" in that area, of bourgeois morality, and I'm not sure where I stand in my congregation. I'm not sure I can remain a Lutheran in good standing. To be honest, I'm disgusted with American Christianity and the mediocrity and mental and spiritual laziness of many people. I feel like Lutherans are not "Red Letter Christians" enough, that it's cheap grace and mediocrity.
A few days ago I watched a video by a psychiatrist named Daniel Fisher talking about his own process of overcoming schizophrenia. He admitted to being an agnostic at one point, but he had such a profound authenticity to him that it really gave me pause. He seemed like a genuine caring and spiritual person who has caught onto some profound insights about reality through his own unique experience with himself and helping other people. It makes my own religion look cheap in comparison.
I'm worried my religion is committed too much to wooden dogmatism, pessimism, and discounts human experience. Especially after a conversation I had with my pastor convinced me that while he is a caring person, there is something missing in his character. I'm genuinely worried I am leaving behind my own authentic voice and becoming part of a herd in the name of conformity. I'm starting to feel my basic non-religious impulse is correct, and that I simply cannot find a way to be a Christian.
In addition, my prayer life has gradually been reduced to zero over the years. When I pray, it's like talking to a brick wall, and I stumble over something to say. I would like to get some spiritual advice but I don't know where to turn.
Prayer is tricky. The ego wants to ask for stuff and gain control.
Who Else Want's Their Prayers Answered Even Before You Pray?
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