Well Ive come to the conclusion that I should take the semester off. I am overwhelmed with what I want to do in school. I dont feel God being a part of it right now. I had my first semester in the spring & now Im on my second semester. I switched my major to Fashion Design and Im not showing much interest in it either. Since I was young I thought Id pursue Fashion Design as a career but when I was 20 years old my relationship with God grew closer & from there instead of pursuing school or going into the military I thought Id spend a couple years growing with God & finding out what I really wanted in life. Those years had hard times but the good happened more often. This past year though my family went through a lot of changes. My SF left my mother for someone else.. he stopped paying for the house and my mother was left to move into a rental. My mother is disabled. I moved in to help her but she is very verbally abusive to the point I was driven to a nervous breakdown. I left my job hoping to find something better which I did but I was so messed up I didnt take them I kept looking for something else... I decided to start school... I felt so pressured to try to do something to make life better that I didnt take the time out to ask God if it was alright. From the time I started school I havent been feeling right about it. I dont know if its because Im going for something that God does not want me to go for or Im not suppose to be in school... Everything is a mess honestly... I used this summer to mentally work on myself and all Im feeling a lot better then I did at the beginning of the summer.. but the depression is still lingering.
Im stressing everyday as if this is the route for me to take. Ive loved the idea of creating things.. but now that Im in the class Im feeling less and less like its Gods calling at least for now.. Im finding that it might not be all its cracked up to be as I had made it.
I dont know but Im not making choices through a clear head here & I feel like the further I keep going the more money I will waste rather then taking the rest of this semester off and getting everything else in my life back together.
I feel like I am literally standing in the middle of the past and the future and have no idea which way to go and the more mistakes I make the more pressure I put on myself. I feel really stuck. I feel like no matter what choice I make the outcome will be negative. I dont know how I began having such a negative outlook on life when Ive always been very very positive.
Im worried about my mothers finances. She only gets a certain amount of money from Social Security she will need help in the future. I dont mind helping her but she is very abusive verbally and dependent. She has taken advantage of my help and kindness before which led to such a depressed state this year that I had to move out temporarily to stay with my sister.
I am very sensitive right now to being alone. I use to be very independent but now since all this has happened I feel very needy like I have this terrible fear I make one wrong decision and God could walk away from me. I feel like I cannot trust anyone.... like if I do the will only disappoint me.
I seriously dont know where to turn.
I keep seeing signs of a breakthrough but Im getting no where right now.
When I look to the future I do see very good things happening I see myself succeeding so I have a positive outlook but for right now I dont know which way to go at all. I think Ive bothered my sister to death with my problems to the point I dont really have anyone to turn to right now. Shes been through it herself and the situation is hard to talk to her about as well.
I know that I may have a lot of self doubt but I dont know how not to...
I know some will probably say to stay in school but I know that I do want to go back to school.. but I want to get better instead of just dragging my way through it and not enjoying it. Im an online student by the way. The idea that im trying to build a new life on an old foundation feels like even more pressure...
I liked my life with God the way it was where it was filled with mystery. I never had any money at all.. but somehow I got things that I want.. or I met such great people through my job... I loved the mornings the most when Id be headed into work.. just those simple moments.. Reality is now I want to move ahead and I feel like he wants me to as well but I dont know where that is suppose to be...
Have others taken a semester off??? I believe God wants me to do that because Im not finding peace in anything I am choosing.... and I dont think i hate any of them.. I think I have alot of pressure on my mind right now that its making me act impulsively... ANy advice???
Thank you in advance.
Im stressing everyday as if this is the route for me to take. Ive loved the idea of creating things.. but now that Im in the class Im feeling less and less like its Gods calling at least for now.. Im finding that it might not be all its cracked up to be as I had made it.
I dont know but Im not making choices through a clear head here & I feel like the further I keep going the more money I will waste rather then taking the rest of this semester off and getting everything else in my life back together.
I feel like I am literally standing in the middle of the past and the future and have no idea which way to go and the more mistakes I make the more pressure I put on myself. I feel really stuck. I feel like no matter what choice I make the outcome will be negative. I dont know how I began having such a negative outlook on life when Ive always been very very positive.
Im worried about my mothers finances. She only gets a certain amount of money from Social Security she will need help in the future. I dont mind helping her but she is very abusive verbally and dependent. She has taken advantage of my help and kindness before which led to such a depressed state this year that I had to move out temporarily to stay with my sister.
I am very sensitive right now to being alone. I use to be very independent but now since all this has happened I feel very needy like I have this terrible fear I make one wrong decision and God could walk away from me. I feel like I cannot trust anyone.... like if I do the will only disappoint me.
I seriously dont know where to turn.
I keep seeing signs of a breakthrough but Im getting no where right now.
When I look to the future I do see very good things happening I see myself succeeding so I have a positive outlook but for right now I dont know which way to go at all. I think Ive bothered my sister to death with my problems to the point I dont really have anyone to turn to right now. Shes been through it herself and the situation is hard to talk to her about as well.
I know that I may have a lot of self doubt but I dont know how not to...
I know some will probably say to stay in school but I know that I do want to go back to school.. but I want to get better instead of just dragging my way through it and not enjoying it. Im an online student by the way. The idea that im trying to build a new life on an old foundation feels like even more pressure...
I liked my life with God the way it was where it was filled with mystery. I never had any money at all.. but somehow I got things that I want.. or I met such great people through my job... I loved the mornings the most when Id be headed into work.. just those simple moments.. Reality is now I want to move ahead and I feel like he wants me to as well but I dont know where that is suppose to be...
Have others taken a semester off??? I believe God wants me to do that because Im not finding peace in anything I am choosing.... and I dont think i hate any of them.. I think I have alot of pressure on my mind right now that its making me act impulsively... ANy advice???
Thank you in advance.