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Well I already read this whole thread and I know the OP was sarcastic and all that, but I still found it interesting. I'd definitely encourage more interracial marriages, namely for the sake of eliminating racism, if it was possible. Of course the banning of same-race ones would be silly and defeat the purpose, but I guess that's what the sarcasm was there for I'm sure. :D

All I can really say is YAY for interracial relationships. I love 'em. Personally I see them as refreshing...something new and different for a change...two cultures embracing the other just to spice up their lives even more and be out of the "ordinary," not because of shame, but because of the love of variety and differences. Besides, from my own experience, I'm happy to embrace diversity. I'm latina and have yet to be involved with a guy from my own race. For some reason, they're just not as interested in me like the white and black boys are lol. *shrugs* Dunno what it is.

Granted, my recent ex is half-puerto rican like me, but his other half (african american) was physically more evident. He would easily pass as a black guy. In my honest opinion, I do like the way my skin looks against the skin of a darker man's. ;) They just compliment each other. :blush: I guess I owe my thanks for that to the newest potential bf in my life now, who is black, as well as my ex. There's just something about different colors that drive me ga-ga. :p
 
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lunalinda said:
Well I already read this whole thread and I know the OP was sarcastic and all that, but I still found it interesting. I'd definitely encourage more interracial marriages, namely for the sake of eliminating racism, if it was possible. Of course the banning of same-race ones would be silly and defeat the purpose, but I guess that's what the sarcasm was there for I'm sure. :D

All I can really say is YAY for interracial relationships. I love 'em. Personally I see them as refreshing...something new and different for a change...two cultures embracing the other just to spice up their lives even more and be out of the "ordinary," not because of shame, but because of the love of variety and differences. Besides, from my own experience, I'm happy to embrace diversity. I'm latina and have yet to be involved with a guy from my own race. For some reason, they're just not as interested in me like the white and black boys are lol. *shrugs* Dunno what it is.

Granted, my recent ex is half-puerto rican like me, but his other half (african american) was physically more evident. He would easily pass as a black guy. In my honest opinion, I do like the way my skin looks against the skin of a darker man's. ;) They just compliment each other. :blush: I guess I owe my thanks for that to the newest potential bf in my life now, who is black, as well as my ex. There's just something about different colors that drive me ga-ga. :p

Get rid of "racism"? Depends on what you mean by that term. Im for my own race, all the way, just as other races are for there own. There is nothing wrong with that.

Same race marriages are natural - interracial marriage is not. Kind begets kind, that is a scientific fact. Only when creatures are completely forced, in every sense of the word, do they mix their race. Other than that, they stay within themselves. Human beings, on the other hand, with choice, free will and reason, sometimes labor to go against the tide. Your choice, but in the long term I wouldnt recommend it.

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Kasey said:
Get rid of "racism"? Depends on what you mean by that term. Im for my own race, all the way, just as other races are for there own. There is nothing wrong with that.

Same race marriages are natural - interracial marriage is not. Kind begets kind, that is a scientific fact. Only when creatures are completely forced, in every sense of the word, do they mix their race. Other than that, they stay within themselves. Human beings, on the other hand, with choice, free will and reason, sometimes labor to go against the tide. Your choice, but in the long term I wouldnt recommend it.

:p

Please tell me the above statement is a joke...
 
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Kasey said:
Get rid of "racism"? Depends on what you mean by that term. Im for my own race, all the way, just as other races are for there own. There is nothing wrong with that.
:p
Your race is homo sapiens, as is mine.

We are members of the Animalia kingdom, the Chordata phylum, the Mammalia class...
 
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Kasey said:
Get rid of "racism"? Depends on what you mean by that term.
Well, racism in that one race is against another race for no good reason other than "well, they look different than me." THAT'S what I call racism.
Kasay said:
Im for my own race, all the way, just as other races are for there own. There is nothing wrong with that.
Of course there isn't. Never implied that there is. If one likes his/her own race, then of course that's cool. People do still have preferences. But I for one refuse to believe that every race out there is ONLY for their own race and wouldn't dare look at another.
Kasey said:
Same race marriages are natural - interracial marriage is not. Kind begets kind, that is a scientific fact. Only when creatures are completely forced, in every sense of the word, do they mix their race.
Uh, says who? You? What's so unnatural about a black man marrying a white woman? Because he has a tad more melanin in his skin? Does that affect his humanity and turn him into some alternate species of animal? Does it mean he's not a homo sapien like the white woman? As far as I can tell, the answer's no, and the only thing "unnatural" about interracial relationships is people's sneering of it for no reason other than the physical aspects of it. I'm no marriage expert, but I'm quite sure that successful marriages are based MOSTLY on everything that goes on INSIDE of the people, not because of a few meaningless differences on the outside. I certainly am not forced to mix with another race, so be careful with generalizations.
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Other than that, they stay within themselves. Human beings, on the other hand, with choice, free will and reason, sometimes labor to go against the tide.
The difference between you and me is I look at "themselves" as another word for "humanity," whereas you seemingly look at it as something beyond that (correct me if I'm wrong), like particular skin color, body structure, or whatever other physical characteristic that differ among races as being reason enough to stick with "your own selves." But hey, if that's a good enough reason for people out there, then that's cool. But that's not going to apply to everyone. I can understand if the human race was like the felines, in which it's obvious that a common house cat couldn't be with a lion because of body structures and because of...well...the housecat being more like food to the big lion. But are people like cats? It's quite known already that even people of different body proportions can still procreate, like a little person (I don't like saying "midgets") can still have sex and father a baby with an average-sized human being. Going against the tide only makes one stronger, in my opinion. And if you knew me personally, you'd know that I'm not one to go with the flow, especially if the flow doesn't bring out my individuality. I don't do what everyone else is doing, and that's what makes me ME.
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Your choice, but in the long term I wouldnt recommend it.
Awww, well thanks for your recommendation, but I don't need it, because frankly, people can never tell me a good enough reason to stay away from other races. So you betcha it's my choice. Every time I see a person sneering at me for walking hand in hand with a black man, I just cling to him even more. I LOVE driving them crazy with their own idealogy about what SHOULD be and what SHOULDN'T be, because seriously...it's rather silly. If they wanna get all bent out of shape then that's their problem. As far as I'm concerned, as long as my love interest is a human being then he's quite capable of being loved by me, ANOTHER human being. What makes a rainbow beautiful is all the various colors sticking together in unison.
 
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ToddNotTodd said:
Please tell me the above statement is a joke...

It would be nice, wouldn't it? Sadly, however, the sightly to the right of Attila the Hun group are alive and well here on CF preaching the "true" Christianity to all within ear shot. Sad. Very sad.
 
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lunalinda said:
Well, racism in that one race is against another race for no good reason other than "well, they look different than me." THAT'S what I call racism.

Indeed

Of course there isn't. Never implied that there is. If one likes his/her own race, then of course that's cool. People do still have preferences. But I for one refuse to believe that every race out there is ONLY for their own race and wouldn't dare look at another.

Yeah, people look, but there is a difference between looking and touching

Uh, says who? You? What's so unnatural about a black man marrying a white woman? Because he has a tad more melanin in his skin? Does that affect his humanity and turn him into some alternate species of animal? Does it mean he's not a homo sapien like the white woman? As far as I can tell, the answer's no, and the only thing "unnatural" about interracial relationships is people's sneering of it for no reason other than the physical aspects of it. I'm no marriage expert, but I'm quite sure that successful marriages are based MOSTLY on everything that goes on INSIDE of the people, not because of a few meaningless differences on the outside. I certainly am not forced to mix with another race, so be careful with generalizations.

Its unnatural because a white woman is not a black woman. Different kinds within a species stick to their own kind. White tigers stick with white tigers and Orange tigers stick with orange tigers, even though they are still tigers.

The difference between you and me is I look at "themselves" as another word for "humanity," whereas you seemingly look at it as something beyond that (correct me if I'm wrong), like particular skin color, body structure, or whatever other physical characteristic that differ among races as being reason enough to stick with "your own selves." But hey, if that's a good enough reason for people out there, then that's cool. But that's not going to apply to everyone. I can understand if the human race was like the felines, in which it's obvious that a common house cat couldn't be with a lion because of body structures and because of...well...the housecat being more like food to the big lion. But are people like cats? It's quite known already that even people of different body proportions can still procreate, like a little person (I don't like saying "midgets") can still have sex and father a baby with an average-sized human being. Going against the tide only makes one stronger, in my opinion. And if you knew me personally, you'd know that I'm not one to go with the flow, especially if the flow doesn't bring out my individuality. I don't do what everyone else is doing, and that's what makes me ME.

Just because a white man and a black woman can procreate doesn mean thats it right to do so. You should stick with your own kind and leave others alone.

Awww, well thanks for your recommendation, but I don't need it, because frankly, people can never tell me a good enough reason to stay away from other races. So you betcha it's my choice. Every time I see a person sneering at me for walking hand in hand with a black man, I just cling to him even more. I LOVE driving them crazy with their own idealogy about what SHOULD be and what SHOULDN'T be, because seriously...it's rather silly. If they wanna get all bent out of shape then that's their problem. As far as I'm concerned, as long as my love interest is a human being then he's quite capable of being loved by me, ANOTHER human being. What makes a rainbow beautiful is all the various colors sticking together in unison.

People sneer at you because they actually know its a perversion, abomination and completely unnatural and disgusting thing to do. I applaud them.
 
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No it shouldn't. No offense intended, but there is absolutly no good reason at all to ban a perfectly good thing as same race marriage.

Now interraccial marriage is another topic (doesn't the Bible say something about it)

I'm not against it in anyway, but doesn't the Bible recommend against it?

Unfortunately, the author of the original post should have stuck with the idea that interracial marriage should be ENCOURAGED, and not mandated.

I am very much for interracial and intercultural marriages - but it shouldn't be mandated.
 
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This comes on the anniversary of Emmet Till's lynching death. And today, at least 15 US Senators refused to sign an affirmation apologizing for lynchings in this country.

I believe that the more we encourage interracial marriages, inter-cultural, and indeed, in some cases, inter-RELIGIOUS marriages, that we will bridge this divide between people. Hatred will eventually go away.

White Christians - encourage your daughters to wed black Christians and visa versa.

A more powerful cultural entity will result.

If your church is against mixing of races, then brothers and sisters, you are serving Satan.
 
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There is absolutely no reason why two people of difference races should not marry on account of that difference.

However, I do think it will be somewhat a loss to the world if one day there is one homogenous race, instead of the many we have today. Each ethnicity has different traits which render them different kinds of beauty; when the world has only one big race, which is what will probably happen, even though there will no longer be racism, we also won't have those different beauties.

And there is also the fact that each culture is somewhat linked to a particular race; when European countries are no longer white, African countries no longer black and Asian countries no longer oriental, but all of them a mixture of the world races, that will also be a loss.

In short, there is no reason to be against inter-racial marriage, but it is also not deniable that it will have negative as well as positive social results in the long term.
 
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It's time to get over it.

God has created of all of us humans equal in his eyes.

Once our love merges, we will become one under Jesus. Don't worry about race differences. God has planned for us humans to love one another and stand forth as a force in His favor.

White Christians need to get over the fact that the US is changing - your sons and daughters will indeed be brown, variations of the color and may be speaking Spanish in 50 years from now.
 
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Kasey said:
Yeah, people look, but there is a difference between looking and touching

Its unnatural because a white woman is not a black woman. Different kinds within a species stick to their own kind. White tigers stick with white tigers and Orange tigers stick with orange tigers, even though they are still tigers.

Just because a white man and a black woman can procreate doesn mean thats it right to do so. You should stick with your own kind and leave others alone.

People sneer at you because they actually know its a perversion, abomination and completely unnatural and disgusting thing to do. I applaud them.

Welcome to Christian Forums, Miss Coulter.
 
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i think we all remember what jesus said in the good book of john.


listen brethren. Though shalt not bury thy face in the loins of a lesser race. Be it cows, chickens, [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]s, ducks, or sheep. For the are not holy, nor sanctified and in the eyes of your truly.

we clearly see jesus's opinion.
smoke weed. shagcarpet out.
 
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Kasey said:
Yeah, people look, but there is a difference between looking and touching. Its unnatural because a white woman is not a black woman. Different kinds within a species stick to their own kind. White tigers stick with white tigers and Orange tigers stick with orange tigers, even though they are still tigers. Just because a white man and a black woman can procreate doesn mean thats it right to do so. You should stick with your own kind and leave others alone. People sneer at you because they actually know its a perversion, abomination and completely unnatural and disgusting thing to do. I applaud them.
This is just creepy. Where do you get this idea from?
 
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christalee4 said:
It's time to get over it.

God has created of all of us humans equal in his eyes.

Once our love merges, we will become one under Jesus. Don't worry about race differences. God has planned for us humans to love one another and stand forth as a force in His favor.

White Christians need to get over the fact that the US is changing - your sons and daughters will indeed be brown, variations of the color and may be speaking Spanish in 50 years from now.

The US is an ungodly, perverted nation that is bent on doing everything but living according to the Bible. Its no suprise that its "changing". Yet, its not changing for the better, its changing for the worse and it will continue to be this way all the way up until Christ returns to establish His Kingdom.

Your children will more than likely end up like that, but my children will not. They will be taught God's Law and live every day of their lives in accordance with the Bible, not your philosphy nor anyone elses.
 
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Kasey said:
Your children will more than likely end up like that, but my children will not. They will be taught God's Law and live every day of their lives in accordance with the Bible, not your philosphy nor anyone elses.


Translation: MY kids will be better than YOUR kids, neener neener neener!

Ah, I love a good ol' dose of Christian fellowship and love first thing in the morning. Really warms my heart, it does. I just think that after seeing Kasey's shining example, I have no choice but to fall down and worship Jesus this very second.
 
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Kasey said:
The US is an ungodly, perverted nation that is bent on doing everything but living according to the Bible. Its no suprise that its "changing". Yet, its not changing for the better, its changing for the worse and it will continue to be this way all the way up until Christ returns to establish His Kingdom..

What does your notion that the United States is an ungodly and perverted nation have anything to do with interracial marriage? What Biblical verse exhorts you to make sure that there is no race or ethnic mixing in your family, or that marrying outside your race is "ungodly" and "perverted"?

How about "LOVE THY NEIGHBOR AS THYSELF" Leviticus 19. 18.

Black people, Hispanics, Asians, Muslims, Native Americans - we are all of your neighbors whether you like it or not.
 
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Kasey said:
People sneer at you because they actually know its a perversion, abomination and completely unnatural and disgusting thing to do. I applaud them.

This post doesn't register with any mods as being flaming? What a hateful thing to say. Love is to be celebrated, not sneered at.
 
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