HI All,
My girlfriend and I have been together for 3+ years. We plan to get married in about 1 year from Valentine's Although we are not engaged, we will be very soon.
We've been considering becoming roommates out of convenience and out of financial considerations. We would share a bed in that case, which we occasionally do now when I sleep over. We've been praying about it and seeking advice. As Christians, we get a lot of negative responses about this from our Church friends who think it is unacceptable for an unmarried couple to live together.
I'd like to hear some of your inputs as to why (or why not) this would be sinful. To give you some background, we are NOT sexually active. We struggled with lust early in our relationship but we have dramatically improved over the years and vowed to wait for our wedding night. I am confident I can avoid and control lust with her if I do move in.
Thank you my fellow Christians.
My girlfriend and I have been together for 3+ years. We plan to get married in about 1 year from Valentine's Although we are not engaged, we will be very soon.
We've been considering becoming roommates out of convenience and out of financial considerations. We would share a bed in that case, which we occasionally do now when I sleep over. We've been praying about it and seeking advice. As Christians, we get a lot of negative responses about this from our Church friends who think it is unacceptable for an unmarried couple to live together.
I'd like to hear some of your inputs as to why (or why not) this would be sinful. To give you some background, we are NOT sexually active. We struggled with lust early in our relationship but we have dramatically improved over the years and vowed to wait for our wedding night. I am confident I can avoid and control lust with her if I do move in.
Thank you my fellow Christians.