Hey C.F. crew.
I am a former believer, now an atheist. In trying to find a reason to believe I often have conversations with mature and intelligent believers. Recently, in one such conversation, a believer expressed the notion that it is always a sin to lie. He began his defense of this in 10 commandments but went on to explain that objective morality is a reflection of gods nature. God being by truth by nature means that untruth, or lying is a sin....always.
Being a reprobate heathen that eats babies and worships the devil (sigh - I include this as a joke but let's all do our best to say away from ad hominem), I disagree.
For example:
Let's say my mother developed Alzheimer's disease. I visit her twice a day and every time she asks when dad will be home. Well dad was the love and joy of her life but he died two years ago. When I tell her he is dead, her face crumples and she begins to sob in anguish.
When I return for the evening visit the staff tell me that my mother sobbed for hours until she fell asleep for a nap. In fact she is just waking up as I enter the room. She asks when dad is going to get home....
I can tell her he is dead, over and over and she can be heartbroken every waking moment for the rest of her life. Or I can say " Dad wanted me to remind you that he is staying overnight at his brother's place tonight to help them with their paperwork".
As an immoral atheist I would chose the latter. What say you all...and more importantly what is your reasoning?
I am a former believer, now an atheist. In trying to find a reason to believe I often have conversations with mature and intelligent believers. Recently, in one such conversation, a believer expressed the notion that it is always a sin to lie. He began his defense of this in 10 commandments but went on to explain that objective morality is a reflection of gods nature. God being by truth by nature means that untruth, or lying is a sin....always.
Being a reprobate heathen that eats babies and worships the devil (sigh - I include this as a joke but let's all do our best to say away from ad hominem), I disagree.
For example:
Let's say my mother developed Alzheimer's disease. I visit her twice a day and every time she asks when dad will be home. Well dad was the love and joy of her life but he died two years ago. When I tell her he is dead, her face crumples and she begins to sob in anguish.
When I return for the evening visit the staff tell me that my mother sobbed for hours until she fell asleep for a nap. In fact she is just waking up as I enter the room. She asks when dad is going to get home....
I can tell her he is dead, over and over and she can be heartbroken every waking moment for the rest of her life. Or I can say " Dad wanted me to remind you that he is staying overnight at his brother's place tonight to help them with their paperwork".
As an immoral atheist I would chose the latter. What say you all...and more importantly what is your reasoning?