Let’s revive the Face the Board!!!

[Cross Over the Lake]

I know you’re out there!!! Let’s see who all is going into 2020 single!!! Show of hands!!!

 

[Lost4words]

Woof!

 

[Cross Over the Lake]

Good to have you @Lost4words!!! How long you been single?

 

[Aussie Pete]

I know you’re out there!!! Let’s see who all is going into 2020 single!!! Show of hands!!!

I see my hand

 

[Kenny'sID]

me 4

 

[Lost4words]

Good to have you @Lost4words!!! How long you been single?

Approx 2 years or so. You?

 

[The_wanderer 40]

Guilty as charged. Single for 12 years (so far).

 

[Cross Over the Lake]

A lot of guys so far lol. That does not mean we are hopeless!!! I see so much potential in the Face the Board thread but it’s been so inactive it’s a bummer!

 

[Cross Over the Lake]

I see my hand

Guilty as charged. Single for 12 years (so far).

Is that by choice? Or not a priority?

 

[Cross Over the Lake]

Approx 2 years or so. You?

I’ve been single going on 9 months. Just got out of a bad marriage.

 

[Lost4words]

I’ve been single going on 9 months. Just got out of a bad marriage.

Oh, hope all is well and that you are on a good journey in life now my friend.

 

[Cross Over the Lake]

Oh, hope all is well and that you are on a good journey in life now my friend.

I am thank you. It was all part of God's plan. As heartbreaking as it was I still learned a lot about relationships and myself.

 

[Aussie Pete]

Is that by choice? Or not a priority?

Not a priority. And I can't be bothered. I should marry because of the ministry God has given me. Meh.

 

[Cross Over the Lake]

Not a priority. And I can't be bothered. I should marry because of the ministry God has given me. Meh.

I figure if God put it in your heart to get married you would feel differently about it. That's similar to how I feel, its just not a priority. Call it "me" time. I like the Face the Board though because its a place to talk about what us singles go through.

 

[The_wanderer 40]

Is that by choice? Or not a priority?

I’m divorced and I’m raising my kids. Not exactly by choice but I’m comfortable being single.

 

[Cross Over the Lake]

I’m divorced and I’m raising my kids. Not exactly by choice but I’m comfortable being single.

That’s good about the kids. Sorry to hear that it had to be that way though. By choice I though as in if someone came along would you date again or would you choose to be single.

 

[The_wanderer 40]

That’s good about the kids. Sorry to hear that it had to be that way though. By choice I though as in if someone came along would you date again or would you choose to be single.

I am blessed to be raising my kids. Looking back, it is amazing how God prepared me to do it. I did date one woman for 18 months, about 4 years ago. It was hectic and ended badly. Since then, I have grown so much closer to God and have realized that I need to focus on Him and what He has for me. If I am supposed to marry again, God will bring the right woman into the work that I’m doing. In other words, He will bring a like-minded woman into my life and we will work together for God.

 

[bèlla]

18 months. No wonder why He’s nudging me.

~Bella

 

[Cross Over the Lake]

18 months. No wonder why He’s nudging me.

~Bella

I wish he would nudge me a little!! Nothing. I “kinda” had a crush on a co-worker a couple months back but it fizzled out.

 

[bèlla]

I wish he would nudge me a little!! Nothing. I “kinda” had a crush on a co-worker a couple months back but it fizzled out.

He’s in my business and roping in my friend too!

I’ll be honest. I’m having a blast. He’s messing with my comfort zone. I am happy to direct Him to you instead!

~Bella