Right VS Wrong
Prov 3:27-35
Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to act. Do not say to your neighbor, “Come back later—I’ll give it tomorrow,” when you have it with you. (V 27-28)
Do good for everyone you possibly can when they have earned it and it is possible to do it now, instead of later. If you have access to that good now, don't tell them, "come back later, I'll give it to you then". It's deplorible to make a person in need wait when you're able to give it now. Think how you would feel in the same situation.
I know there are situations when you might not be able to help in the "now", but if you are able, don't make the person wait. So you're a little inconvenienced. Be kind. Charity is a moral obligation. Share, be generous..
Don't borrow money and not pay it back when you said you would. If you have it sooner, pay it sooner. Postponing it until it's more comfortable for you is not acceptable. That person might have given to you out of their own need, and now are in need of it back.
It's important to note too though, that if you're in need, don't obligate people that you think are able but not helping. That's deplorable too. Trust God, He is your providor.
Do not plot evil against your neighbor while he lives trustfully beside you. (V 29)
Don't devise ways to get the better of your neighbor. He trusts you. Don't say things that may cause others to think poorly of him. Don't be unkind, forgive mistakes and don't plan to get even. If we know about something that will hurt your neighbor, don't remain silent. Give them a "heads-up".
Do not quarrel with a man for no reason —if he has done you no harm. (V 30)
Do not be contentious. Don't argue for arguments sake. Don't question things just to question. Don't do anything for revenge. Don't look for problems where there is no problem. A current example would be some accusing the "soot on the faces from the chimney scene" from Mary Poppins of being racist...it's like "what"? If you're a person who see's something sinister in every little thing, STOP IT! You're causing a quarrel for no reason.
Do not envy a violent man or choose any of his ways. For the devious are detestable to Adonai, but He takes the upright into His confidence. (V 31-32)
The oppressor is a common person. The person who has power and likes to hold it over people. Threatening them, "unless you do such and such', or however they throw their weight around. Don't desire to be in their shoes. There is nothing about an oppressor to be desired.
One who acts contrary to the nature of God is detestable to Adonai. He wants nothing to do with that person. They can always choose to repent of course, but until they do God's hand will not be on that person to guide them in righteousness.
On the other hand, with the upright person, the one who seeks God's heart and seeks to know what is the right way to go, God, will take into HIS confidence. They will be able to rest in peace and safety and be secure in their relationship with Adonai.
Adonai’s curse is on a wicked house, but He blesses a righteous home. (V 33)
Living contrary to God's ways and teaching your family to live this way as well causes His hand of blessing to be withdrawn from the home and when His blessings are withdrawn, there is nothing but curses left. This does not necessarily play out as an affliction but whatever their outward circumstances are God will not be looking at them in favor. I think we see this play out in many famous families where the parents are both of the violent sort, screaming and cursing and their children "follow suit". There is no peace in the home.
On the other hand, the home of righteous leadership is blessed. Not necessarily in outward circumstances of money and fame, etc., but in a peaceful household. That does not mean there is never any stress in the house, but on the whole the family is seeking God and living in peace together.
Though He scoffs at the scoffers, He gives grace to the humble. (V 34)
Adonai scorns scorners. Those who make fun of those who desire to know more of God. Calling them names like, "goody two-shoes" or other degrading terms. Or those who scoff at God Himself, or His ways. Those who make fun of Yeshua and what He did for us. Making films that portray him as homosexual, or promiscuous, etc.. HE resists them and scoffs at their efforts and their plans.
On the other hand Adonai gives grace to the humble. Admitting our errors and being teachable is a delight to Him and He freely offers forgiveness.
The wise inherit honor, but fools are held up in disgrace. (V 35)
The one who follows wisely in God's ways will inherit honor in heavenly places. They will have a banquet table spread in their honor in the presence of their enemies. But those who walk in foolishness, ignoring God's directions will end up disgraced.