There are some people that I think I could be quite good real-world friends with, and I suspect you would be one of them.
I would prefer more real-life contact. I invite people over - mostly from church, who know and are friends with each other as well, but only a few bite/come. Most give the excuses I see in the parable about those invited to the wedding. I see my good friends only a handful of times a year (part of the problem is that most of them live in Moscow, and I don't).
As you know, I am starved for companionship with my fellow countrymen, who I don't have to teach English to, or explain my sense of humor (it doesn't help to know English if you don't know Star Trek or Bugs Bunny there...)
And here I don't have to spend time defending the Orthodox Faith. I can communicate with people who take it for granted. In English.
I understand how Patrick (a user name like an ATM password is a little hard to relate to), and others, can decide that this is not for them. When I get ragged on hard for thinking Chesterton so important to our literature, culture and yes, even faith, I think about bailing, too. But people cool off, including me.
So here I am.