, Humor, when a guy can make me smile over anything, a natural comedian who'd make it a mission to make me laugh even by something as silly as purposely embarrassing himself for my benefit, but who also knows when to be serious when the moment calls for it. Confidence, but without the cockiness or arrogance that tells him he should always get his way because "he da man" or he does this or he does that. That's not confidence by a longshot. That's egotistical big-headedness. No, I like the confidence that would give him the strength to stand and dare to love someone or cry over someone or whatever, confidence that wouldn't let him cower away when things get rough. Confidence that tells him that honesty and respect and decency are what gets people places in this world, not running people over just because you think you're better or because you're more deserving or whatever else. Confidence that demands humbleness. THAT is confidence. And finally, sincerity...when he means what he says and does what he means. When he's bound by his words by CHOICE and not because he might feel obligated to follow up on what he declares. Sincerity that keeps him honest with both himself and the people he claims to love and care about. Sincerity that isn't a chore to have, but a desire.