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Kissing on the first date - A poll

Discussion in 'Singles (Only*)' started by Mrs. Luther073082, Jan 8, 2009.

  1. I am male and I typically want first date kisses.

  2. I am male and I typically *do not* want first date kisses.

  3. I am male and I am not sure.

  4. I am female and I typically want first date kisses.

  5. I am female and I typically *do not* want first date kisses.

  6. I am female and I am not sure.

Multiple votes are allowed.
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  1. JonMiller

    JonMiller Senior Veteran

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    I have actually only been kissed twice by girls (and was a bit drunk, I think, both times), I was never the initiator. And I didn't really want to kiss them so I am happy not being the iniator. I have never been in a situation where I wanted to kiss someone who wanted to kiss me back/etc.

    JM
     
  2. EternalWealth

    EternalWealth New Member

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    I do not understand even for a second how this community can be so critical on purity one moment, but then talk about kissing on the fire date the next.

    The majority of the world would think you're a lunatic if you talked about kissing on the first date. Especially since their community forums instead ask "Sex on the first date- a poll"

    I will never understand christian communities.
    At least the worldly people make sense and follow logical reasoning for their lunacy.
     
  3. Mrs. Luther073082

    Mrs. Luther073082 Commit to the LORD whatever you do - Proverbs 16:3

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    Uhhh... we went to the Mexican place (1), bowling place (2), Alligator Farm (3), went to some restaurant for lunch (4), and then went on nature trails (5). So I believe it was the 5th date :cool:

    But I would have kissed you after the second date if you had not been so keen on keeping your promise to not kiss me the first day you were here :p
     
  4. Miles

    Miles was here

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    I would rather not kiss on the first date. A quick friendly hug seems more appropriate for the situation. Of course, that doesn't mean I'd necessarily duck if she tried to plant one on me. ;)
     
  5. EternalWealth

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    Nooo not at all. The actual topic on hand has nothing to do with this.

    Im sorry for even saying that.
     
  6. EternalWealth

    EternalWealth New Member

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    thanks very much for the nice question and the hug

    but i am skeptical to receive such generosity and comfort. i dont think it would be illogical to be skeptical that if everyone was involved in the drama earlier, that id receive no hugs :p

    Not like I need them or anything. It takes a lot more than a fighting an entire society to get me down ^_^

    hahaha, im already cheering up...thanks, this did a lot more than I thought it did :kiss:

    o_O hmm i actually find it strange now that I think about it...

    I can fight against an entire society or world, hundreds of people or what not- and it doesnt even affect me at all. Makes for some fun sometimes too :p

    But a SINGLE person can have the opposite affect. When it's just one person that punches you, it hurts, despite the fact earlier a thousand punched you and you were invincible. :confused: as a psychologist i find that odd
     
  7. JonMiller

    JonMiller Senior Veteran

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    a single death is a tragedy, a million deaths is a statistic

    attributed to Stalin

    JM
     
  8. EternalWealth

    EternalWealth New Member

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    LOL ^^^ i like this guy :p
     
  9. EternalWealth

    EternalWealth New Member

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    Please dont waste your time looking, and PLEASE continue to float around.

    The singles forum is a brood of vipers slithering around waiting for prey to fall in its grasp.

    Poor little sheep :(
     
  10. RobinRedbreast

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    Mod Hat On


    Just so you guys know, a thread cleanup has taken place :angel:

    If your post is missing, I apologize for that. :hug:


    Mod Hat Off
     
  11. ernest_theweedwhackerguy

    ernest_theweedwhackerguy Hello, I'm Ernest P. Worrell

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    Honestly, it all depends on how the date went.
    If it went perfectly, and we clicked right off the start, yeah. I'd go for a kiss.
    Anything but, I highly doubt it. Hugs are fine for me in this scenario. :)
     
  12. GoodNewsJim

    GoodNewsJim Senior Veteran

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    Deja vu all over again. When the mods cleaned out this thread, they still left a page 4. So when I click page 4, it takes me to page 3. I did it like three times before I realized there is no page 4... yet.
     
  13. Gwendolyn

    Gwendolyn back in black

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    LOL whenever that happens it confuses me so much, first I think I must be insane because I swore I clicked in 4, then I try it again and again... haha.
     
  14. oncewaslost

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    i'm usually reserved in the physical aspect of all relationships. i generally don't even greet people i know with a hug... though i'm not as adverse to it as i used to be. anyway, kissing on the first date? eh... depends.
     
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