seeingeyes
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Getting a marriage license in most states requires a witness and certificates as well.
And many Christians get pre-marital counselling from their church and receive approval or confirmation from a minister that they are prepared to make that commitment.
So I am wondering why the final signature on a marriage license by the minister is what makes a couple "married" in God's eyes. Plenty of engaged couple are well beyond the standards of marriage in Biblical times much before the wedding actually takes place. And in many cases (like mine), it is man-made culture of having a big wedding that delays a lot of marriages, because families will not accept couples just going to the courthouse or getting eloped.
I do not consider sex within that relationship "pre-marital" from a Biblical perspective, only a legal one.
I would agree with this except for one thing. Couples who are putting off the wedding date for xyz reasons usually do not consider themselves married. They haven't made any vows to each other except, perhaps, a promise to get married at a future date.
If two people don't consider themselves married and neither does anyone else, it would be a stretch indeed to say that they are married.
Or in other words, whatever the requirements may be, no one accidently gets married.
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