Yesterday at 05:22 PM gladiatrix said this in Post #119
WHY ADOPTION IS NOT A PANACEA
As of today, this year, ~37,650,000 people (one person every 2.4 seconds) will have died of starvation, 75% of them under the age of 5.. This is one reason that I think abortion should be legal and that the "adoption" argument put forth by anti-choicers is a canard. As long as one LIVING child starves to death, I have absolutely no sympathy for adoptive parents whose only problem really appears to be that they can't find a perfectly formed, white (usually) BABY to play the game of "Parenthood" with.
Let's not forget the 100,000 adoptable childen in the US foster care system. What is their "problem"? Most of them are too "old" (older than 2 years) or not "white". Pressing other womens's wombs into service so that some upper-middle class yuppie couple can have their dream-baby is nothing more than slavery, catering to the gross, self-involved selfishness of those who won't play "house" UNLESS they can have the "perfect" little white (usually) baby. Bottom-line here is that if we can't care for those already LIVING, it makes no sense to create more of them.
LET'S DO SOME MATH.....
In any one year since Roe v Wade, there have been ~1.1-1.4 million abortions per year. Now there are only 50,000-75,000 couples seeking babies to adopt. Imagine how easy it would be to sate the desire of adoptive couples for children, the market runneth over!!! Quite a short-fall in the parents department! A question to anti-choicers: Any recommendations on what to do with all the tens of millions of unadopted infants anti-choicers plan on enslaving women to produce? A "life" means more than just getting born, there are at least 72-79 years of AFTER the birth bit (education, food, health care, a job, and last but not least LOVE that goes with that 3 score and ten!!)
[size=2.5]WHAT ALL THIS MEANS TO A WOMAN[/size]
Of course, if the fetus continues to grow, it WILL become a person! But only at the EXPENSE of the woman. People are not merely a means to an end, but ends in themselves. A woman treated as an incubator of a fetus by the law is merely a means to an end and is therefore not being regarded as a person. Most anti-choicers want to reduce her to the status of a SLAVE/INCUBATOR. A woman is a person, representing a large investment in time and resources, even on the part of those who regard women as inferior. An zygote/embryo/fetus is only a POTENTIAL person, representing no such investment. The bottomline for me is that the rights of a fully grown woman outweighs the "rights" of a fertilized egg/embyo/fetus until the fetus has developed to a point where a "person" is truly present (22+ weeks). Let's back that down to 20 weeks, the point a which the American College of Gynecology puts "viability" (even though none survive before 23 weeks). Just my opinion, of course....
You have GOT to be kidding me.
I was adopted. I was not adopted at the time of birth, but some time afterwards. Let's see, would I rather be dead right now? Nope, can't say I would.
Was it tough for my birth mother? heck ya! She didn't have much money, wasn't living with her parents or anyone else, and had to work for everything. But she knew that I was a child, HER child. And she saved me. Then a wonderful family adopted me. She loved me enough not to kill me, and my family loved me enough to provide where she could not.
Let me ask you this in response to the adoption vs. abortion statistics (which are also false): There are thousands of Americans living on welfare. Many elderly have their healthcare paid through our high insurance rates. The mentally ill are put into institutions which are paid for by taxpayers. These are a burden on us. Would it be right to kill them?
Lastly, I am a pro-lifer who works with many well known pro-life organizations and NONE of them see women as incubators. Many of these groups are run by women. What it comes back to is humanism (the idea that we should put man and man's intentions over God and anyone who gets in our way, including our own children) and the degeneration of humanity (where we no longer count human live as important). Whatever happened to the human race? We come to a point now where we will kill our own children for our happiness. Just like in The Crucible, where people sent their own children to their deaths for their happiness, we do the same.
Few people wish to turn women into slaves and incubators. Many people want to turn children into "live not worth living" due to their family's situation.
-Dr. Jonathan Morgan
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