I feel like such a victim.. Long story short this is the third time I've been stolen from and instead of confronting the situation, I say its my fault to avoid any arguments. First time I got over 300 dollars taken from me and I said nothing about it. Second time I've gotten the love of my life taken from me and said nothing about it.. And the third time I've got over 200 dollars taken from me and said something but now immediately will sweep it under the rug because I fear that they will think that I'm lying. I can't believe that I was crossed like this again. I'm the most insecure person and I hate myself for it. No one respects me because I have none for myself. And I'm constantly being taken advantage of for the hard work that I do.. This only breaks the ice on what I've been going through.
I'm just wondering when something will change. My heart hurts, everything hurts. Constantly. I have no voice. This pain is so deep and I feel so misunderstood. I want for once in my life to stand up for myself. Just once. To stand for something. When I've been cheated over and over again. That itself doesn't hurt. But when someone cheats you and you lie for them saying it was your fault. That hurts so much worse. Not only was I cheated but I lied and took the guilt for being cheated too. Not because I'm nice, no its because I have no backbone. Left with zero self respect and a bad image.
I carry so much weight. So much hurt. I just want to be free from it all. When you've been through pain this deep, it's so hard to relate to other people. Outside I have the perfect life and upbringing. But inside I could relate to someone who lived through the most traumatic experiences.. Is the answer as simple as needing to stand up for myself? Having self respect?
I'm just wondering when something will change. My heart hurts, everything hurts. Constantly. I have no voice. This pain is so deep and I feel so misunderstood. I want for once in my life to stand up for myself. Just once. To stand for something. When I've been cheated over and over again. That itself doesn't hurt. But when someone cheats you and you lie for them saying it was your fault. That hurts so much worse. Not only was I cheated but I lied and took the guilt for being cheated too. Not because I'm nice, no its because I have no backbone. Left with zero self respect and a bad image.
I carry so much weight. So much hurt. I just want to be free from it all. When you've been through pain this deep, it's so hard to relate to other people. Outside I have the perfect life and upbringing. But inside I could relate to someone who lived through the most traumatic experiences.. Is the answer as simple as needing to stand up for myself? Having self respect?