Counterfeit money is printed on real paper . . . maybe not the paper used for real money, but still some kind of real paper. There are real liars.
In the time of Jesus there were ones claiming to be real Jews. But Jesus said they were not exactly. So, just because early history people claimed to be Christians, this does not mean they were. Certainly, they are not necessarily authoritative about what they say.
"Test all things; hold fast what is good." (1 Thessalonians 5:21)
So, do I understand that Jesus had a wife? It could be scriptural, if our Father had so chosen >
"For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin." (Hebrews 4:15) So, if our Groom Jesus has been through things of this life "in all points" "as we are", this could be used to support that He has been through things of marriage "as we are", and also through time of celibacy.
But my opinion is that Jesus did relate closely with a number of ladies who are honoring Him. For example, we see how He was ok with the woman washing His feet with her tears and kissing His feet. Luke 7:36-50. To me, that was pretty intimate and physical. So, He was in love intimate, if not totally intimate physically, with a variety of ladies, I would say. I would say His way of being sharing and personal and affectionate with certain women was more real and intimate than many physically intimate married couples have been. So, yes Jesus has handled the temptations of being in very close relationships, so He can help any of us in any relationships, though He was not physically married.
Mary was right at His feet . . . listening . . . having chosen "that good part". She knew how to relate intimately with Jesus. There were women who knew how to share very closely with Him, in better relationships than many of us have had, so far, in our marriages. Luke 10:38-42. So, as marriages go for some number of us, no way was Jesus "married"; but He enjoyed more and better and deeper with some number of ladies who honored Him and were there for Him.