How can we be so sure that Christianity is the truth and every other religion is false? Why would an all knowing God guide some to Allah and some to Jesus? Both parties have equally the same conviction of faith that they're in the truth.
I used to think I was a born again Christian until there were certain things that bought me back to reality and after I started to question some things I had issues on. I started to think maybe Christianity isn't the truth as I was reading into Islam and how they view the Bible. I got genuinely confused about religion.
Why do we believe in God and how is faith reliable? I've been at that state before of feeling like you're in the truth and that God is with you etc, but is God actually there?
Cheers
Hi Jay-
For about 3 years, I've been on a pretty intense "knowing venture",* one that I think can help offer some clarity. I think your fundamental question is framed in a less-than-helpful way since there are some mis-defined terms and hidden assumptions smuggled into it. These can go unnoticed because almost everyone gets fired-up about the questions without looking at the ideas
IN the questions and asking if they are true. Here are 4 points to consider in tackling the questions you're wrestling with:
1. I have noticed a shared tendency (Christians and Non-Christians alike) to treat God as a concept to be proved rather than a person to be known.
If God is a thing, a concept, we have to use technique, reason, logic, etc. to prove His existence and nature. After all, that is what scientific rationalism is. For atheists, since God is not subject to the laboratory, they conclude he doesn't exist or can have no impact in reality. They misdefine "faith" as wishful thinking at best, and irrationality (or delusion) at worst.
For our part, Christians expend vast amounts of energy to stave off this criticism through logical arguments, historical and textual evidence and other methods. While I have great confidence in the historical foundations of Christianity and those who have enriched our knowledge of those foundations**, this pursuit is not the central focus of the Gospel message which is this: through Jesus's life, death and resurrection (yes, in history), we have been brought into a new, interpersonal relationship of adoption into God's family. (John 1:12, Ephesians 1:3-14, Titus 3:3-7, 1 Peter 1:3-6, 2 Peter 1:3-4, etc.).
2. Faith is the correct "toolkit" for interpersonal (rather than scientific ) investigation
All interpersonal relationships follow these two repeated steps:
- Person 1 self-discloses to Person 2. I use the phrase "self-disclosure" but we could also use the word "revelation". When I began to know my wife, I had to let her see me physically, intellectually, and emotionally. If I never did, she could never know me.
- Person 2 trustingly cooperates with Person 1's self-disclosure. If my wife-to-be had not trusted me and then cooperated by revealing herself and choosing to learn more and share more, our relationship would never have got off the ground.
This two-step dance is a repeated cycle. Prudence in human relationships is fine, but if we insist on background checks, tests, comparison with other options, etc. we are not actually IN an interpersonal relationship, the sharing of mind, desires and emotions. If we believe someone has really asked us to go to coffee and we want to go to coffee, we say "Sure, let's get coffee!" If we believe God is who he said he is and that he has done and will do everything he says in, to and through us, then we "trustingly cooperate" with that personal self-disclosure by living our lives as if it's all true. Just like a human relationship, we can start a relationship with God before we are %100 sure of (or completely understand) all the specifics.
This is why we can't treat "faith" as either something mystical or as something inferior to reason. We exercise interpersonal trust EVERY SINGLE DAY. That is because
trust/faith is a relational tool , not a forensic concept. In reality, employing trust/faith in a worthy person is almost always better than employing reason (which is really just trusting our own limited capacities).
In the Bible, "faith" always means active, relational trust in the character and promises of God. This is a massive and unbridgeable chasm separating Christianity (an interpersonal love relationship with our Creator) from every other religion. For example, in Islam, "faith" is functionally identical to obedience in a legal sense (i.e. 'Follow the rules in order to not be punished and to possibly attain paradise'). In the gospel, God has shown his mind, will and emotions toward us by dying at the hands of his human creatures on our behalf in order to "demonstrate [the quality of] his own love for us" (Romans 5:8), and to "bring many sons to glory". (Hebrews 2:10)
3. Yahweh, the tri-personal God of everything is a free agent.
In Luke 19:10 Jesus said that he came to "seek and save the lost". In John 6:44, we learn that the Father is active in drawing people to the Son. In John 16, the Holy Spirit is being sent to "convict the world concerning sin and righteousness and judgment" so that human hearts are prepared to receive the Son. There is no other expression of Divine love that parallels the active, seeking, rescuing love of the Father, Son and Spirit, the "Magnificent Three"***.
- Allah doesn't act this way. He doesn't "send his Son into the world…that the world through him might be saved" (John 3:17).
- Allah doesn't "empty himself, taking on the form of a servant" so he could die on a cross in our place (Philippians 2:5-8).
- Allah doesn't offer adoption as co-heirs with Christ into the Divine nature, not because of our righteousness, but because of the perfect sacrifice of Jesus (Ephesians 1:3-14)
I used to get sad when I shared the good news with someone and they rejected it, or when I heard that someone who had professed trust in Christ turned their back on the Savior for whatever reason. That doesn't bother me as much anymore because this God who has
self-disclosed in history and especially in Jesus (Hebrews 1:1-2) is a free agent who goes where he wants, changing hearts (John 3:8) and turns enemies into Sons (Romans 5:8).
4. Your human understanding of human relationships is an excellent guide to knowing God
Made in the likeness of God, created for relationship with him and each other, the gospel is a call to deep, familial, interpersonal love. He "fully knows us" and has "given us everything we need for life and godliness" (2 Peter 1:3).
He has fully revealed the depth of his love for us on the cross and his plans for our future. Now we respond with
trusting cooperation. It's not mystical. It is exactly how we relate to humans.
God has shown us who he is in every way that one person can self-disclose to another person (through what he has made (Romans 1:20), through talking (Hebrews 1:1), through his actions in history (the whole Bible), through personally coming (Hebrews 1:2, John 14:9-10), and through the personal experience of the Holy Spirit, God's love poured into our hearts (Romans 5:5).
I hope that helps. I have confidence in the seeking and saving God so I'm not too worried about your doubts. This is the kind of person He is. I will say that Islam, Mormonism, Jehovah's Witnesses and every other works-based religious system have this in common, all of them enable a person to be at the center of their salvation story. But that is not the interpersonal reality offered in the Bible. It's scary to involve someone else. Will they really be there for me? Will they let me down? In Hebrews 11:6 the author tells us
why faith (trusting cooperation) is irreplaceable: 1) you have to believe there is a person to know and that 2) if you try to know him you will be rewarded with relationship.
Ing Bee
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*a term coined by Esther Meek in her excellent little book "A Little Manual on Knowing" which you might find helpful.
** see Mike Licona, Gary Habermas, Peter J. Williams, Richard Bauckham, Dan Wallace, Michael Heiser, Craig Blomberg, Steve Collins, etc.)If you find it helpful I recommend watching "The Jesus of Testimony" Documentary for free online. It has many of these scholars presenting current scholarship from their respective field of inquiry".
*** A great little book by Nicky Cruz, the former New York gang warlord who was transformed by the love of Jesus.