That's a very awful thing for me to hear, LoAmmi. I'm am truly sorry to hear that. I was bullied just a little bit when I was in Jr. High, so I have had just a little taste of that kind of thing. But, I can imagine that your situation was quite a bit more of a serious one, and I'm sorry you had to endure that. I wouldn't wish that on anyone.
With that said, I would say that some of the implication of Psalm 22
does apply to you, to some extent, but not completely. It applies to you in that you indeed had a serious situation to contend with from bullies, all of which had some real semblance to the situation that David found himself in when trying to contend with the repeated provocation and attacks by King Saul and his company. On the other hand, I need to ask a question: Was the bullying you experienced in school perpetrated by your peers because you are Jewish and they wanted to pick on you and your view of faith in our Lord,
OR ... was this bullying at the hands of your own fellow Jewish classmates? I ask because in Psalm 22, the danger David was in, as far as I understand the historical contexts, came from David's own ethnic kin (again, Saul and company, in this instance), and in which case, then, I'd have to say, no, it doesn't apply to you all that well.
Again, I'm truly sorry to hear that you were targeted like that. That's an awful thing.
Well, in looking at one of my books, this one by Ronald A. Brauner (a Jewish,
non-Christian educator within American Judaism), I find that he says that in relation to topics like that of our contemplation about the meaning of the Messiah, Messiahs, or Messianic movement, or what have you:
These topics are discussed at length in the sources of the Tradition [by the Rabbis, I assume], but there is generally no consensus as to the particular details attaching to them. These matters, and others like Resurrection of the Dead and Days of the Messiah, while significant for the overall picture and understanding of Judaism, do not have doctrinal significance because they have no halakhic significance. In these and similar areas, much is left to the individual's own imagination and understanding but there is little if any insistence upon collective understanding. Judaism tends to articulate consensual detail only when the subject being examined is meant to be applied behaviorally. (pp. 143-144)
In seeing that this comment doesn't tie Jewish people today down to a particular interpretation about the Messiah, however He may be alluded to in the Law, Prophets and Writings, I would think this openness could extend to hearing out what well-meaning Christians, such as myself, might have to say about the nature of the Messiah and all of the disparate things we find about various related entities in Scripture.
Just a thought.
Reference
Brauner, Ronald A. (2001).
Thinking Jewish: The art of living in two civilizations. Pittsburgh, PA: Mirkov Publications, Inc.