I don't think you understand me in the least.
When it comes to what someone believes is right, according their THEIR faith practice, is not something either you nor I can dictate to them.
You believe that according to your beliefs, that you can avoid church, skip any form of Easter or Good Friday communally, make your own sacraments or skip them all together and that's all well and good. Good for you! (I posted a lovely recipe for people who might wish)
But if someone else disagrees, it's not YOUR job to dictate to them they follow YOUR interpretation of THEIR faith.
I'm a new enough Christian and in examining scripture I've come to my own conclusions for ME. And while we can sit all day long and argue the finer points of faith, debate and discuss scripture etc. but what we CANT do morally, is to force anyone to follow the faith according to another man's definition.
As Scripture said, for the one who believes something is sin, then for them it is sin because anything not done in faith is sin. (Romans 14:23)..
Everything we do must be done from faith... is someone truly believes they are sinning if they avoid church over long, or believes they can't make the sacraments etc etc. then for them it is sin, and if you force them to do what is against their conscience, then you have caused them to sin.
"We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves."
We can't dictate to anyone anything, you can debate the finer points from scripture, but you can't dictate faith.
When you believe you can, that is when you overstep your bounds.