I haven't seen my parents for about 10 years now. It's too long of a story to explain and get into. Just know there were significant enough reasons I had to cut them out of my life. However, this rift also created issues with my 2 sisters as well. They chose to side with my parents, so I also haven't seen them in about 10 years also. Recently, I decided to reach out to 1 of my sisters to apologize for letting this issue with my parents affect our relationship over the years. I decided I would be the bigger person and apologize. I then took the initiative to get our 2 families to meet up and possibly start to form a new relationship again. I thought it would be nice for our kids to meet for the first time too. Her response back initially seemed like a good one. When she found out we were not willing to also have a relationship with our parents again, she said she then couldn't have one with us either. To sum up her response, she basically said her communicating with me would not be "honoring thy parents". I don't believe this response to be correct. I think she should be able to have a relationship with BOTH OF US. Yes, I'm sure they would be mad if she began a relationship with us, but wouldn't this be the right thing to do even if it makes them mad? I personally think she's just too scared because she's scared of how they will react.
Please give me your honest opinion and tell me who is right in this one.
Please give me your honest opinion and tell me who is right in this one.