I respect your faith and opinions and say none of this to be insulting. I offer this merely as an explanation for why a lot of people feel the way they do about various types of churches. I’m not saying one side is right and another is wrong, so please don’t take it that way.
I grew up Roman Catholic, so I’m very familiar with how mass is conducted. For some, the beauty of the ceremony is very fulfilling. As you said, the service revolves around the Eucharist, which to some is exactly what they are seeking.
That notwithstanding, let’s look at Christ’s ministry. Did He spend three years traveling the countryside instructing people on conducting ceremonies? No. He taught. And what did He teach? The Good News, the Word of God. Over and over in the NT we read how amazed people were at His teaching. When he sent out the twelve during His ministry, what did He tell them to do? Spread the Good News. What did His disciples do after they received the Holy Spirit on Pentecost? They became the ultimate evangelicals, traveling all over, spreading the Gospel, establishing churches and converting the masses.
For that reason a lot of people don’t feel ceremonial church services like the Catholic mass are a reflection of Jesus’ example for how we are to witness and worship. For some people, repetitive, scripted ceremonies in lavishly adorned cathedrals just don’t reflect the Jesus we read about in the Bible. Christ and His apostles were teachers of the Word, and there is very little teaching at all happening in Catholic mass. I haven’t sat in on a Catholic mass in many years, but I’ll bet I could still dang near recite it from memory. If not, there’s a missal in the pew back that will tell me every word the priest will say (excluding the 5-minute homily). As a matter of fact, there's a thread on one of the Catholic subforums where folks expressed outrage that a Catholic priest did not recite the mass exactly as it is scripted in the missal. Like I said, a lot of people connect well with Catholic mass, but many do not.
This is why we see so many non-denominational churches popping up and thriving all over the country. A lot of folks are looking for churches that are focused on preaching and teaching the Good Word, just like Jesus and His disciples did. Just speaking for myself, every time I walk out of church on Sunday I do so with new insight into the Word of God that I can apply to my everyday life to help me better walk with Christ. I never got that sitting in a Catholic church where the service was a ceremony revolving around Holy Communion. But I do get that out of a church service that revolves around Christ’s example of preaching and teaching about the Word of God.