white dove
(she's a) maniac
Exactly. Guys get wrinkles, often gain weight, hair falls out or turns gray, less energy, etc...but that's all sexy, manly stuff on them and hideously unattractive on a woman. Grrr.
While I'm feeling "grrr," I should warn you all that I might sound crabby.
I'll have you all know that you can bite me if you think that I have an expiration date. Just because I'm a certain age doesn't mean I'm so very old looking and either expired or nearing an expiration date. I may be over 30 years old, but you all (well, male CFers) would be darn lucky to get the fabulousness that is me.
It's funny that while there's talk of "shelf life" and all, younger guys seem interested in women in their 30s around here (my city) in increasing numbers. A 23 year old was interested in me late last year and early this year, a family member older than me is engaged to a guy 8 years younger, and I could go on. So, apparently we're not all seen as expiring products and maybe society is slowly changing.
You don't have an expiration date. The only time that "dating" a person like that comes into play is when women want biological children (we like to ignore that adopting and fostering children just isn't an option - also that being childless is some kind of curse) because that is something important for women to consider if that is something they strongly desire to have someday. Men can stay potent (or should I say, able to procreate) for a lot longer than women, although their ability to perform may or may not be affected by age.
I would say that men do age more gracefully than women, but that more than likely has to do with my sexual preference. I want to grow old with a man and so that is attractive to me on some level (not that I go for much older men). I do, however, like to point out women who look so damn good at an "older" age. Women like Drew Barrymore who is just so smoking hot right now.. back when she was younger? Not so much. Now? Bombshell. Demi Moore, Blythe Danner, Mariska Hargitay, Famke Jannsen.. all these women who've taken care of themselves who look damn fine for their ages. But we like to focus on the negative. I blame women, to be honest. If women weren't so hard on ourselves, if we didn't believe all the lies we're told about our appearances, maybe we wouldn't have to deal with this whole expiration mentality. I don't. I mean, I want to look like a young bride for my future husband, but that's only because of a pre-conceived notion I've had about what age I would be at/what I would look like when I married. If it doesn't happen, oh well. I still want to take care of myself to look as good as I can for myself.
Anyway... you got on your soapbox, I got on mine. ;P
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