Is the the man I should be with?

[Kaypatt]

We were friends for 1 year before we started dating. We’ve been dating for 2 years. He has been a Christian his whole life, however when we started dating I was not. I started going to church with him etc. I became a Christian I made the decision to get baptized. The problem is we argue waaay to much, it’s simple arguements just one a day but we get into serious arguments once a week. I feel like the problem is my fault because sometimes I feel like I would pick him over God. Or that God is asking me to leave him and I am In denial. How do I know if God approves of my relationship.

 

[Apologetic_Warrior]

We were friends for 1 year before we started dating. We’ve been dating for 2 years. He has been a Christian his whole life, however when we started dating I was not. I started going to church with him etc. I became a Christian I made the decision to get baptized. The problem is we argue waaay to much, it’s simple arguements just one a day but we get into serious arguments once a week. I feel like the problem is my fault because sometimes I feel like I would pick him over God. Or that God is asking me to leave him and I am In denial. How do I know if God approves of my relationship.

Dunno, maybe be patient with yourself and with him. Sounds like he needs to learn when to just hold his peace and trust the Lord will work it out. Jumping from one relationship into another will not solve the problem, just might mean a different set of problems. We all have our problems. Love is patient.

 

[Apologetic_Warrior]

We were friends for 1 year before we started dating. We’ve been dating for 2 years. He has been a Christian his whole life, however when we started dating I was not. I started going to church with him etc. I became a Christian I made the decision to get baptized. The problem is we argue waaay to much, it’s simple arguements just one a day but we get into serious arguments once a week. I feel like the problem is my fault because sometimes I feel like I would pick him over God. Or that God is asking me to leave him and I am In denial. How do I know if God approves of my relationship.

Dunno, maybe be patient with yourself and with him. Sounds like he needs to learn when to just hold his peace and trust the Lord will work it out. Jumping from one relationship into another will not solve the problem, just might mean a different set of problems. We all have our problems. Love is patient.

 

[Hammster]

Talk to your pastor. There’s no way we can reasonably give you good advice without knowing you.

 

[dayhiker]

Why are you arguing so much?