I only stated the beginning concerning the Egyptians to bring up the fact that I can't know for sure one way or the other. So I assumed that there were a few households with an only child in them for sake of the discussion. Not to be nonsensical. Concerning circular logic, that isn't my intent. I really can see how scriptures there show the first born / only child view concerning Egypt in the past, as I do assume that myself when I have read it in the past, but that is due to the fact I do not have anything else to go on when it comes to historical data at the time. The inheritance aspect is shown there to be God's judgment upon Egypt as an all-inclusive statement. I see it as it meant those of single households as well as multiple children houses. I do not gather that from the brethren of Mary. In Mark 6:3 the brethren and sisters may not be referred to as children of Mary directly, but they are not referred to as children of Joseph here either. However they are referred to in same line of speaking showing the family ties. This only showing their relationship to Jesus and recording what the accusers had said. And in Mark 6:4 Jesus even says that they were his kin, in his house. But considering the parentage, it is actually logical to record it this way, as his brothers and sisters would have the same mom, but different dad. So, logically, one would leave Joseph out of the recorded saying, as he would not be relevant to Jesus in the manner they referred to. The accusers knew Joseph wasn't his dad, though they didn't propose to know who his dad was (the Father). But they knew his brothers and sisters were his brothers and sisters. Also good reasoning for why Jesus did not correct them in the statement. Galatians 1:19 has Paul referring to James the apostle as the Lord's brother, while this may or may not be the same as this is confusing when recounting the original 12.. maybe the 70 idk. However, in Luke 2:1 when appearing for the census because he was of the line of David, Joseph appeared with Mary and unborn Jesus. There are no other children of Joseph here as this would be required by the decree. So again, Jesus was the first born of Mary (only), followed by the several brothers and sisters, children of Mary and Joseph, both. It is presumed here that while Jesus was born of a virgin, there is no reasoning why she would stay one after he was born. It isn't sinful to have kids within marriage. Also, 1 Corinthians 7 says a few things concerning celibacy and marriage. I just have a hard time understanding where the idea of her staying a virgin after she had Jesus comes from. Logically, to me, it came from tradition that was not biblical. And since I tend to trust God's word more than anything else, one can easily see my viewpoint(s). To me it's not as obscure as we make it out to be.
While slightly relevant I'll expand on this a bit. If you would like we can continue a discussion on the following in a message or separate thread for sake of maintaining the thread as it is pertains to the one topic.
But briefly first and foremost, Concerning the last part, I don't presume anyone who believes the Christ is Lord above all is not Christian. While slightly offtopic I'll address just for the sake of being complete.
But the topic you had addressed there concerns praying to the dead and is not asking the living to pray for you. the website gotquestions sums it up fairly well actually I will partly quote them here.
["Praying to the dead is strictly forbidden in the Bible.
Deuteronomy 18:11 tells us that anyone who “consults with the dead” is “detestable to the Lord.” The story of Saul consulting a medium to bring up the spirit of the dead Samuel resulted in his death “because he was unfaithful to the LORD; he did not keep the word of the LORD and even consulted a medium for guidance” (
1 Samuel 28:1-25;
1 Chronicles 10:13-14). Clearly, God has declared that such things are not to be done.]
[Consider the characteristics of God. God is omnipresent—everywhere at once—and is capable of hearing every prayer in the world (
Psalm 139:7-12). A human being, on the other hand, does not possess this attribute. Also, God is the only one with the power to answer prayer. In this regard, God is omnipotent—all powerful (
Revelation 19:6). Certainly this is an attribute a human being—dead or alive—does not possess. Finally, God is omniscient—He knows everything (
Psalm 147:4-5). Even before we pray, God knows our genuine needs and knows them better than we do. Not only does He know our needs, but He answers our prayers according to His perfect will.]
[So, in order for a dead person to receive prayers, the dead individual has to hear the prayer, possess the power to answer it, and know how to answer it in a way that is best for the individual praying. Only God hears and answers prayer because of His perfect essence and because of what some theologians call His “immanence.” Immanence is the quality of God that causes Him to be directly involved with the affairs of mankind (
1 Timothy 6:14-15); this includes answering prayer."]
I presume to only pray to the Father via Christ. Nothing else feels right. Nothing else seems to have credibility. But I digress, I was trying to stay on the perpetual virginity topic here.