Hello lovley CF folks. A broad range of opinions would be very welcome on this. My son is due to make his Confirmation in the Catholic Church this spring, along with children of 3 parishes, but I'm concerned that 9yrs old is too young for this. I may very well be wrong but it is my understanding that Confirmation is a declaration of conscious choice to be in faith (or however you'd put it), 9 seems very young to be expected to make a decision about faith to me. It seems to me that is is expected that the children go through the Sacrament because it is timetabled this way, but how can the Sacrament have meaning that way?
Now there are benefits I see, such as getting some specific education on Confirmation, which I'm glad to say is education for parents to then bring home to their children as they see fit. Also it would be a lovely community celebration that it would be shame to have him miss out on, as many of his classmates will be being Confirmed alongside him. But my main concern is about going through the Sacrament because it's just what is expected at this time. We are on paper Catholics, I had him Baptised as a baby, he has made his first Holy Communion a couple of years ago, but it was never about anything more than community and identity and tradition and family (all important things, but not what I now feel any of this should be about) Having only very recently come to faith I don't feel that we are Catholics, not really. (I'm wittering. I'll bring it to a close now, thanks for your patience!)
Is it fair to expect a 9yr old to make this act of faith? I can't help but feel it constitutes a statement of commitment to the Roman Catholic Church, which surely we should not do if we don't feel committed to that church, quite apart from the fact that it should be a commitment to Christ, not the church (or should it not?). How can the ceremony have meaning if the heart is not ready, or in it? it can't can it?
btw, my son believes in God, sees him and talks to him (that's another story!), but he's just a normal God, there's loads of them walking around up there. He also believed in Mighty Thor. He's 9.
Any thoughts?? Thanks in advance. A happy and holy Sunday to you all.
(sorry for rambling on!!)
Peace.
Now there are benefits I see, such as getting some specific education on Confirmation, which I'm glad to say is education for parents to then bring home to their children as they see fit. Also it would be a lovely community celebration that it would be shame to have him miss out on, as many of his classmates will be being Confirmed alongside him. But my main concern is about going through the Sacrament because it's just what is expected at this time. We are on paper Catholics, I had him Baptised as a baby, he has made his first Holy Communion a couple of years ago, but it was never about anything more than community and identity and tradition and family (all important things, but not what I now feel any of this should be about) Having only very recently come to faith I don't feel that we are Catholics, not really. (I'm wittering. I'll bring it to a close now, thanks for your patience!)
Is it fair to expect a 9yr old to make this act of faith? I can't help but feel it constitutes a statement of commitment to the Roman Catholic Church, which surely we should not do if we don't feel committed to that church, quite apart from the fact that it should be a commitment to Christ, not the church (or should it not?). How can the ceremony have meaning if the heart is not ready, or in it? it can't can it?
btw, my son believes in God, sees him and talks to him (that's another story!), but he's just a normal God, there's loads of them walking around up there. He also believed in Mighty Thor. He's 9.
Any thoughts?? Thanks in advance. A happy and holy Sunday to you all.
(sorry for rambling on!!)
Peace.