I agree 100% with a lot of the comments here. I only listen to Christian radio (The Message, on Sirius radio) if my wife is in the van. She hates my Christian rock. When she hears The Resurrection Band it puts her back in her teen years B.C., when she went to parties and got drunk. I think it's because, for her, the sound of Rez Band is similar to a lot of '80s rock. Since I don't have a sinful past, there is no music that reminds me of anything negative in my past. Except maybe the time I was in grade 7, walking down the hall in Christian private school singing "We don't need no education" with a buddy. We only did it if the teacher was around to hear it. But as bad as that was, it's not a bad memory for me.
Christian radio makes me sick. Especially Crawford Broadcasting stations. They are horrible. We have one in Detroit, and there's one in Buffalo that I've heard when visiting in-laws in Brantford. They only hire bimbos and milquetoasts to be DJs, and the music is horribly commercialized.
I grew up in the '80s, so I will always love The 2nd Chapter of Acts, Fireworks, Phil Keaggy, Rez Band, Sweet Comfort, Keith Green, etc., but now I would rather hear Neal Morse, Deliverance, and other Christian metal and hard rock. I think Red is totally original. I don't know of any secular band you could compare them to, or that they have tried to sound like. I think they truly have their own sound.
I disagree with people saying that a band compromised just because they sound like a secular band. X-Sinner sounds just like AC/DC and Def Leppard. But so what? Why is that wrong? How does that constitute 'worldliness?' No one ever explains that. They just parrot it as fact. I love the sound of AC/DC and Def Lep, but I don't want to hear their lyrics.
CCM that I can't stomach is Jon Gibson, Matt Maher, Matt Kearney, and all the mainstream female singers. I used to be a Sandi Patti fan, and I saw her in concert in London, Ontario with Billy Crockett, who made me want to throw up. I couldn't wait for him to leave the stage. I think that 'cartoon characters get saved' song is absolutely atrocious!!! Chris Rice should be hung for that song. That whole genre is just revolting.
If my personality could be a sound, it would be the sound of Metallica. I think I relate to their sound more than any other, but I would rather hear Xandria, Sirenia, Stratovarius, and other symphonic metal bands.