So,I have a friend that works at my job.We no longer hang out because we both work different hours.So now the only thing we can do is text each other.I will admit when people do not answer my text messages,I assume they are ignoring me and I get mad and send a angry text.The last time I did this to my friend,they said we need to not talk for a while.Does this mean the friendship is over?If not,I am choosing to end the friendship because I apologized for my behavior ,but I have been a bad friend to this person,and I do not want to cause them any problems.
So,I have a friend that works at my job.We no longer hang out because we both work different hours.So now the only thing we can do is text each other.I will admit when people do not answer my text messages,I assume they are ignoring me and I get mad and send a angry text.The last time I did this to my friend,they said we need to not talk for a while.Does this mean the friendship is over?If not,I am choosing to end the friendship because I apologized for my behavior ,but I have been a bad friend to this person,and I do not want to cause them any problems.
Thank you both.I just feel like I really messed up this time,I feel really guilty and embarrassed.
Its just so difficult because I have a few friends,but I can only keep up with them through text message since I cannot drive.I am just losing motivation for trying to do my school work and my job.I just want someone to talk to.
Thank you for the advice,I will meditate on this scripture.hi one thing to learn is what is love. Go ahead and study this and meditate on what the Bible says is love.
1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. 2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned,[fn] but have not love, it profits me nothing.
4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8 Love never fails.
So in your situation you acted rudely and were seeking for yourself. You were not patient or kind. Now if you want to love your friend you have to change how you approach reconciliation. You have to suffer long, be patient not behave rudely. Time will present you another opportunity to see this person. And perhaps if this is how you are living your life her and others will see these qualities in you. My wife is very popular and she is very selfless. She really loves others and for some reason the reaction of other people is to love her too. This is what being a mature Christian is about is understanding the difference between our natural fallen nature and choosing to live in the spiritual one by walking in the Spirit of God. Gods ways are higher and better than our own. We mush choose to seek those higher ways to free ourself from ourselves and Jesus will transform us. In your case I imagine this is one incident that points to a more important issue and you can choose for yourself what you will place your time and energy into becoming what type of person you want to be. You cannot mature without thinking praying and making new choices. God bless you.
lscripture.Coming here was probably a good Idea if you like to talk... well text... well type... you know what I mean
True I was mad in the moment because I was bored and wanted someone to talk to.I apologized,but I feel really dumb nowYou were definitely out of line. It is not reasonable to expect someone to text back right away. He could have been busy. He could have just not felt like texting. He might just not like texting.
I don't like texting or getting texts. My wife often send me texts with these horrible emoji (love hearts and such) but I only reply if something needs to be said. (And I never use emojis!) I think most men are like this - my male friends and I only ever send short one sentence texts for organisational reasons (like meeting up).
We've all been there, and it seems it was only yesterday sometimes in my mind.True I was mad in the moment because I was bored and wanted someone to talk to.I apologized,but I feel really dumb now
Yeah I just know this was probably the last straw for them,so I just feel terrible