I'v had this discussion before, and some spouse's do not think it's appropriate for their BFF to be best friends with their husband/wife or to even speak to each other if they are not present in the room. They think it's a gateway to cheating. Do any of you feel this way?
I don't have any experience with married couples, but I do with those who are dating. My ex BFF used to invite me over to hang out with her and her boyfriend, I noticed that whenever I spoke directly to him, she would answer for him always. Or if she got up and left the room to go to the bathroom/kitchen all eye contact would cease, he would not speak or make any kind of eye contact. He never did anyway, sometimes when I spoke directly to him he would have his head down. Just strange. I found the entire sitaution very weird and stopped hanging out with her when the boyfriend was present. It was childish and made me very uncomfortable.
I know most couples are not this extreme but I was wondering if you would think it would be inappropriate for your spouse to be on the phone with your best friend of the opposite sex carrying on a long conversation with them. Do you think it's disrespectful?
I don't have any experience with married couples, but I do with those who are dating. My ex BFF used to invite me over to hang out with her and her boyfriend, I noticed that whenever I spoke directly to him, she would answer for him always. Or if she got up and left the room to go to the bathroom/kitchen all eye contact would cease, he would not speak or make any kind of eye contact. He never did anyway, sometimes when I spoke directly to him he would have his head down. Just strange. I found the entire sitaution very weird and stopped hanging out with her when the boyfriend was present. It was childish and made me very uncomfortable.
I know most couples are not this extreme but I was wondering if you would think it would be inappropriate for your spouse to be on the phone with your best friend of the opposite sex carrying on a long conversation with them. Do you think it's disrespectful?