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Morning all,
I'm not involved in youth ministry directly, but the subject of this question is a teenager I am very close with. She is practically a daughter to me. She is dealing with an issue between her and the head instructor at her karate studio. She and he are having problems regarding his interpretation of her being disrespectful (I don't think she is) and her feeling she can't freely speak her mind in areas outside of the studio. He has called a meeting with her. She wisely turned to Scripture to try and figure out how to handle it. I've offered to sit with her in the meeting because she is essentially an orphan (mom passed away, dad out of state, lives with her older adult sister). I offered to be in the meeting with her because I'm not convinced the instructor will give her a fair shake. It might just turn into a venting session on his part. She told me last night "I'm going to handle it like we are told in Matthew 18:15-18 (dealing with sin in the church).
I think her understanding of the situation in Scripture here is wrong. When I read it, it's more like if you see a peer doing something wrong. She is in a situation where she is being brought in to discuss an issue she is having with the head guy - not a peer. But, is it worth it to correct her on this? I don't want to come off the wrong way. I think she's doing the right thing, but her application here is wrong
Thanks for the advice
I'm not involved in youth ministry directly, but the subject of this question is a teenager I am very close with. She is practically a daughter to me. She is dealing with an issue between her and the head instructor at her karate studio. She and he are having problems regarding his interpretation of her being disrespectful (I don't think she is) and her feeling she can't freely speak her mind in areas outside of the studio. He has called a meeting with her. She wisely turned to Scripture to try and figure out how to handle it. I've offered to sit with her in the meeting because she is essentially an orphan (mom passed away, dad out of state, lives with her older adult sister). I offered to be in the meeting with her because I'm not convinced the instructor will give her a fair shake. It might just turn into a venting session on his part. She told me last night "I'm going to handle it like we are told in Matthew 18:15-18 (dealing with sin in the church).
I think her understanding of the situation in Scripture here is wrong. When I read it, it's more like if you see a peer doing something wrong. She is in a situation where she is being brought in to discuss an issue she is having with the head guy - not a peer. But, is it worth it to correct her on this? I don't want to come off the wrong way. I think she's doing the right thing, but her application here is wrong
Thanks for the advice