Is it a sin to befriend a gay person?

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First of all, "being" homosexual is not a moral issue. God's Church has many homosexual members in good standing, who live their lives as God calls them to live, just like the heterosexual members. If you mean actively living a homosexual lifestyle, then yes, you can be friends with such a person, as long as you do not give the appearance of approving of their sin. If we couldn't be friends with sinners, were wouldn't have any friends.
 
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one thing that bothers me is how many Christians attacks people for being gay. You can say something is a sin but to make someone feel less than loved is not good way. Trying to make them less than feeling loved by God is wrong. I try to go with the path Jesus takes and befriend others. Not attack

It is not a sin.

We are supposed to love one another.
 
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First of all, "being" homosexual is not a moral issue. God's Church has many homosexual members in good standing, who live their lives as God calls them to live, just like the heterosexual members. If you mean actively living a homosexual lifestyle, then yes, you can be friends with such a person, as long as you do not give the appearance of approving of their sin. If we couldn't be friends with sinners, were wouldn't have any friends.
No that is not biblical. Homosexuality is a sin, according to the scripture.
 
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Is it a sin to befriend a gay person? -- It would be a sin not to love them as a neighbor.

It's a sin to refuse to love our neighbors as ourselves.

When we love another sinner, someone like ourselves in that they have their own sins, for which they need Christ, just as we do, we are not endorsing their sins, whatever those might be, but instead obeying God's commandment.

It's not my job to condemn anyone for their sins, but instead to tell them the Good News of Christ, in time. Befriending them can be a very good first step to telling them the Good News.
Christ spoke harsh words against the Pharisees and Sadducee yet he also ate in some of their homes.
Anyone who has a gay friend, that friend should hear the truth from you about their sexual immorality.
Such a message was spoken by John the Baptist and it also cost him his head. I wonder if the gay friend would not want to be friends anymore if you told them the truth about not being obedient to the gospel.
Which includes not being conformed to this world.
And the morality of this world should trouble you, if you believe in Christ.

1 Thessalonians 1
7 and to give you who are troubled rest with us when the Lord Jesus is revealed from heaven with His mighty angels,
8 in flaming fire taking vengeance on those who do not know God, and on those who do not obey the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 These shall be punished with everlasting destruction from the presence of the Lord and from the glory of His power, 10 when He comes, in that Day, to be glorified in His saints and to be admired among all those who [d]believe, because our testimony among you was believed.
 
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one thing that bothers me is how many Christians attacks people for being gay. You can say something is a sin but to make someone feel less than loved is not good way. Trying to make them less than feeling loved by God is wrong. I try to go with the path Jesus takes and befriend others. Not attack
Is it a sin to befriend a jealous person, a murderer, an angry person, a deceitful person, an evil person, a gossiper, a slanderer, an atheist, a rude person, an arrogant person, people who disobey their parents, the ignorant, the unfaithful, the loveless, and merciless? Like with anything you have to use discernment with those you keep company with, but these people, just like homosexuals, are those who Jesus died and rose for like He did for us. "And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God (1 Corinthians 6:11)." Thank God somebody in the Lord befriended us when we were trapped in sin. Be that somebody for someone else. Grace and Peace.
 
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The tolerance of homosexuality among Christians is a result of the political correctness movement.
Why are you so afraid to speak out against sin?
You can be friends with someone and not support their every choice. You can love someone and still let them know you do not approve their choices. I am sure you have friends that partake in other sins ( whether you know about them or not. does that mean that you are not friends with them?
 
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Because it is none of our business. The Bible is there and churches are there.

If they ask us personally, we should lead them to the Bible and give them an honest answer. But so long as they don't want our input then pointing their sins out is mere judgement and is rude.
It is none of our business who someone sleeps with ( as long as both parties are of age).
 
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You can be friends with someone and not support their every choice. You can love someone and still let them know you do not approve their choices. I am sure you have friends that partake in other sins ( whether you know about them or not. does that mean that you are not friends with them?

Good point...what happens if they turn out to be family...even your own children...can they be friends?
 
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Good point...what happens if they turn out to be family...even your own children...can they be friends?
Well, if they are your children you can disown them all you want, but DNA does not lie.
 
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Have you ever wondering why there are so much homosexuality in our days than before? Even some of us personally know someone who is Christian but also become gay or declare their gender identity. What should we do as Christians. Signs of time.

Well, whenever people became vain in their imaginations, where they are professing themselves to be wise in their conceits or self-satisfaction and gratification, they become fools. And God brings His judgments down upon them. Look at the first sin God names in Roman, where He speaks of this same thing. Homosexuality tops the list. In Sodom, homosexuality was prominent in God's narrative of that place. None of this is by coincidence. When man turns away from righteousness and starts to forsake God, he becomes like a beast, carnal where his prominent desire is the lusts of the flesh. He is filled with coveting, Greed, pride, violence, vanity, and sexual perversions (lusts).

The increase of homosexuality is the sign that God has then given them up to these things to defile themselves in abominations because of their continued unfaithfulness. They grow worse and worse (as it is today) until it becomes a earthly judgment before the final heavenly judgment. See Romans chapter 1 where God speaks of their foolish unfaithfulness and says "Wherefore," (or in other words, because they were unwilling to retain Him in their knowledge, and they chose instead to do whatsoever was right in their own eyes), God gave them up. That is the language of God abandoning them, removing His Spirit that restrains evil, and allowed them to act out all the evil of their heart which He had previously hindered. 2nd Thessalonians calls it the Restrainer taken out of the midst, and revelation chapter 20 calls it Satan being unbound. These all point to this same act of "giving them up" by God. It is God taking away his hand of restraint and allowing wickedness to multiply on the face of the earth as judgment, a precursor to Christ's second advent. This unfettered rise of acceptance of Homosexuality is part and parcel of this "giving them up" by God. Everything in this chapter of Romans has been witnessed right here in this forum continually.

Romans 1:24-32
  • "Wherefore, God Also Gave Them Up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
  • Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
  • For this cause God Gave Them Up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
  • And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet.
  • And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
  • Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
  • Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
  • Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
  • Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them."
If that's not a commentary on the world today, I don't know what is. And particularly the growing apostasy in the church. The church today is continually making excuses not to be obedient to God's word, excusing homosexuality, fornication, divorce, undisciplined children, lusts, virtually everything under the sun can be rationalized away by the church today in name of "love" and "equality". And the mantra is, "don't you dare judge!"

Why now? Because I believe that we are very close to the Lord's second advent, and these are part of the signs "His servants" were prophesied to see, which other professing Christians deny even exist, or rationalize away as nothing special. They will insist that we continue to show love and show some tolerate toward their sin. To them it is the same "business as usual" of the world.
 
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No that is not biblical. Homosexuality is a sin, according to the scripture.
Is it or is it ACTING on it. Many people believe that homosexually is not a choice, but acting on it is, of course a choice If that is the case then how could merely being gay be wrong?
 
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Short answer to the thread question would be of course not.

One of my best friends, coworkers at the City is gay.

We are both retired now but, still go out for sushi quite often.

Christians should love everyone including their enemies.

M-Bob
 
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Have you ever wondering why there are so much homosexuality in our days than before? Even some of us personally know someone who is Christian but also become gay or declare their gender identity. What should we do as Christians. Signs of time.

Well, whenever people became vain in their imaginations, where they are professing themselves to be wise in their conceits or self-satisfaction and gratification, they become fools. And God brings His judgments down upon them. Look at the first sin God names in Roman, where He speaks of this same thing. Homosexuality tops the list. In Sodom, homosexuality was prominent in God's narrative of that place. None of this is by coincidence. When man turns away from righteousness and starts to forsake God, he becomes like a beast, carnal where his prominent desire is the lusts of the flesh. He is filled with coveting, Greed, pride, violence, vanity, and sexual perversions (lusts).

The increase of homosexuality is the sign that God has then given them up to these things to defile themselves in abominations because of their continued unfaithfulness. They grow worse and worse (as it is today) until it becomes a earthly judgment before the final heavenly judgment. See Romans chapter 1 where God speaks of their foolish unfaithfulness and says "Wherefore," (or in other words, because they were unwilling to retain Him in their knowledge, and they chose instead to do whatsoever was right in their own eyes), God gave them up. That is the language of God abandoning them, removing His Spirit that restrains evil, and allowed them to act out all the evil of their heart which He had previously hindered. 2nd Thessalonians calls it the Restrainer taken out of the midst, and revelation chapter 20 calls it Satan being unbound. These all point to this same act of "giving them up" by God. It is God taking away his hand of restraint and allowing wickedness to multiply on the face of the earth as judgment, a precursor to Christ's second advent. This unfettered rise of acceptance of Homosexuality is part and parcel of this "giving them up" by God. Everything in this chapter of Romans has been witnessed right here in this forum continually.

Romans 1:24-32
  • "Wherefore, God Also Gave Them Up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
  • Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
  • For this cause God Gave Them Up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
  • And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet.
  • And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
  • Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
  • Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
  • Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
  • Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them."
If that's not a commentary on the world today, I don't know what is. And particularly the growing apostasy in the church. The church today is continually making excuses not to be obedient to God's word, excusing homosexuality, fornication, divorce, undisciplined children, lusts, virtually everything under the sun can be rationalized away by the church today in name of "love" and "equality". And the mantra is, "don't you dare judge!"

Why now? Because I believe that we are very close to the Lord's second advent, and these are part of the signs "His servants" were prophesied to see, which other professing Christians deny even exist, or rationalize away as nothing special. They will insist that we continue to show love and show some tolerate toward their sin. To them it is the same "business as usual" of the world.
I am unsure if there is more of it or if people just come OUT more there is a difference.
 
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How would we fell if others never befriended us for our sins? It's all part of forgiveness, we do not follow them, like what they do, But we still love them and walk two miles with them is asked.

Jesus said to give to all who ask, all. Even your time and friendship.

Why? Out of love.

We do not live as in the old testament any longer, not after Jesus made everything new.

We all have sin, there is no greater sin then the next and there is only one unforgivable sin.

So next time you think this way, remember your own sins.
 
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How far has this country fallen when the other day when a General of the United States Army simply said that homosexuality was an immoral act. That's all he said. And he's now being tarred and feathered and called to resign? He was accused for not being nice, hateful and un-compassionate. Sounds like some Christians here, doesn't it?

Has this country come to the point where you can't even say homosexuality is immoral anymore without loosing your job or condemned as hateful? Is this what so-called Christians like some people here want? That we simply tear up the bible and preach the world's doctrine of Christian humanism. It's unbelievable that things have gotten this bad this soon. And all we can hear from Christians who agree is about is how the church isn't falling and we should just accept homosexuality. Signs of time!
 
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So, you don't think you need to? What do you do then?

Just preach the TRUTH! That doesn't mean you stop preaching the truth, it means you move on from those who will not "receive" it (2nd Thessalonians 2:10) to the next opportunity. We don't deliberately offend anyone, but offenses will come regardless.

Matthew 15:11-14
  • "Not that which goeth into the mouth defileth a man; but that which cometh out of the mouth, this defileth a man.
  • Then came his disciples, and said unto him, Knowest thou that the Pharisees were offended, after they heard this saying?
  • But he answered and said, Every plant, which my heavenly Father hath not planted, shall be rooted up.
  • Let them alone: they be blind leaders of the blind. And if the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch."
You think the Pharisees were pleased at hearing Christ saying, "Beware of the leaven of the Pharisees?" No, not at all. But it's something which had to be said, regardless. Why? Because it is the leaven, it is the "DOCTRINES" that will destroy the Holy people. Unfortunately, few understand that today. Because they think they should be all about compassion, love and peace as "they themselves" define those terms.
 
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